Hey ladies, haven't been on here for ages, but you've always helped me before so here goes.
Again, me and the fella are struggling. We seem to have resolved a lot of our previous issues but with us both being at work (though I'm only back part time so I can spend time with my gorgeous Niamh) we never seem to spend time together. Niamh will go to bed between 6.30-7, And then we have tea and wash up and do housework. After all that we sit on our phones and catch up with Facebook or suchlike. We dont talk any more. And when we have nights off, when Niamh goes to stay with the grandparents we end up having a meal out then going to bed as we are so tired.
Niamh is 18 months now and so adorable, I am so amazed that I made that little person. Though i can count on 1 hand (I'm not even exagerating) the amount of times we have had sex since I got pregnant. When I was pregnant I didn't feel like it with having felt sick for the majority of the pregnancy and then got really sore and achy towards the end, then it took us 6 months after Niamh was born to even try sex, and for the last year I have had to intiate it every time, only to be rejected because he doesn't feel like it 99% of the time. It's been 7 months since we last had sex or even passionately kissed.
Is this normal? I've always had a high sex drive so for it to just go completely is really hard for me. Is it unrealistic of me to expect it even once a month by now?
Thanks ladies. Hope you and your gorgeous babies are all ok. Xxx