Hello

I was just newly diagnosed in july and have struggled with so many challenges im hoping things get better…as a mom of 2 busy kiddos its so hard to manage life right now. Im hoping for insight that others can understand and relay on how to deal with a new way to live life.

[mm1527mm]

Hello,Sorry you were diagnosed but glad you found this support group. I was diagnosed in 2019 at 28 with a 1 and 2 yr old at the time. I felt hopeless like my world came crashing down. This group helped pick me up and keep on keeping on. Blessings

[jimeka]

Firstly, hello and welcome. Secondly, learn to prioritise jobs that are important. Spending quality time with your children is and will give you the most joy. Forget about the housework, don’t stress about things you can’t get finished, enjoy today. Turn some mundane jobs into a game for the kids, so what if they can’t dust properly, but think of the fun you can have spending time with them. Read up about the Spoon theory , I can now apply it to my life and my hubby understands. Keep in touch, it takes a while to adjust but with a positive attitude you can do it. Blessings Jimeka 🤗🍫

[ahrogers]

kdali may be able to give some tips on managing little ones while managing your own MS symptoms

[kdali in reply to ahrogers]

Ty!

[kdali]

Welcome!! Hoping things get better is a good start. I have a 4 and almost 2 year old, both after diagnosis. How old are yours? Searching for specific symptoms or issues may help you learn how to navigate them. Sometimes moms with MS groups can help with kid issues or ideas.

[StacyHayward]

Welcome! The best advice I can give you is teach your kids to help (even if they are young) and learn to let things go. Life is a new normal. You can’t do everything.

My example is I just got through gardening season. For a month and a half I’ve been processing fruits and vegetables. Housework has taken a major backseat-my house is a mess. But it’s ok. It can wait, but the fruit could not. Someday I’ll have to give up the garden. It’s ok too.

I knew I had ms before having my son. He was taught from birth that we work together to keep our home clean. Even by age 1 I could put wet laundry on the dryer door and he loved shoving it inside. So work together. If your kids are already older, sit down as a family and have a meeting. Discuss responsibilities they can take on to reduce your load.

Be patient with yourself, listen to your body and doctors. Good luck!

[Jer29-11]

I’m sorry to hear about your diagnosis, but welcome to the group. I was diagnosed in 2019 at 33 and my daughter was 1 1/2. It was hard! Find yourself a solid support system. Also, as moms, it’s so hard sometimes to take care of ourselves. I learned early on that I had to take care of myself (sleep, naps, exercise, healthy eating) or nothing was taken care of. Hang in there and stay strong! Reach out here for support ❤️😊