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ms Brothers, I would like advice on the topic of SEX. Do "YOU" feel that it is appropriate for me to write about this. No pornography or any such, just me talking about issues as a male on this subject. Sisters if "YOU" like I can try to discuss female issues, I can ask ske who must be obeyed.

I am a grown-up and will treat the subject as a grown-up. Simply say YES or NO and I will take your advice.

Royce (your ms writer and brother)

limit the childishness please

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Royjr profile image
Royjr

I think yes as long as you keep it at a reasonable level (I THINK)

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RoyceNewton in reply toRoyjr

Okay, informative not pornographic.

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If you feel comfortable discussing this subject, then go ahead, Royce :-D

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RoyceNewton in reply tocarolek572

I will just not today

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Allen5280

I certianly miss it! Miss having someone to hold, but there have been times that i couldnt stand to be touched. Ny mental state is in great turmoil. It has been better recently but still seriously broken. Still miss, really miss having another hand to hold and someone to tell me its going to be ok when it looks like it really isn't. Going through this on my own (in the physical sense, i know y'all are here for me) is really, really hard. Thinking of putting someone else through this, having to watch while someone is suffering, i dont know that i could do that to someone i cared for. Thats Just what i struggle with.

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goatgal in reply toAllen5280

Your eloquence here is moving, echoed in more than just your life and mine. And, of course, with the pandemic still a concern, isolation and loneliness is intensified.

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RoyceNewton

hmm, I think I understand

Amore55 profile image
Amore55

Yes, absolutely, important topic.

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mrsmike9

It's a subject which so many people, male and female, skirt around. I am female, married, and celibate. Can't remember the last time. As the act itself is not what I miss, I miss the cuddling, etc. He seems to think cuddling must evolve into the act.

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2littletime

Yes...👍

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kdali

I think it’s a good idea because it’s a topic many shy away from but have issues with and are ashamed or embarrassed to ask help with...and neuros could also feel weird about asking. Call it “sexual health” or look at the wording others have used to write about it and you should be fine.

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twooldcrows

i think it would be fine for i figure there are others with the same problem or just miss it for the fact of someone to hold and be held ....long time for husband had prostrate cancer and they snip a spot that should not of been sniped ...just kisses and holding is what is what we can still do just not the same ...age and other things can mess with it ....we are adults here ....and if someone wants to ask questions or what questions to ask the doctor it all helps ....love and happiness...

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Sandydemop

Dear Royce, Sorry, just seeing this now. Immediately I have to answer YES! We all have issues with this one way or the other, part of being human. And y ou have given so much to all of us, of course you deserve some opportunity to reach out for help. I'm no expert on the topic but I can listen and maybe relate. I worry (kinda) when you talk about she who must be obeyed assuming this is your wife. Be well.

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