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Glad I’m a part of something so much bigger than myself.

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I’ve been sorta kinda off of the grid for a couple of weeks. Challenging time. I want to explain me to you...I’m a very positive/upbeat/glass half full kinda guy. However, every so often I become not depressed, but somewhat frustrated w/me. Sometimes I have to just RETREAT from all and get back to my happy place. I have to give all the credit to my maker and how He gave me my happy place to go to in times of need. I would not do well without the positive influences in my life.

What about you? Are you a positive person? Do you have a happy place?

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agapepilgrim

I have chemical depression - since I was a kid, lots of childhood problems. Now they tell me I have neurological disease instigated bi-polar (or something like that). Like the brain damage caused bi-polar. So my happy place is the beach. But can’t go there anymore. My happy place is shutting everyone out and playing iPad games. Is that happy place or escape place? I become a recluse. I shut off from this site, social places, everywhere. Can’t deal. Until it passes. The darkness. The cave place. Then I go outside.

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pamgarner in reply to agapepilgrim

you know that they have beach wheelchairs that they rent with larger wheels,i was so excited when I found that out:)

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agapepilgrim in reply to pamgarner

Yes, last time I was there I used a wheelchair. The 10-11 hour trip is just too tiring on me. Fatigue has overwhelmed my life, giving me 1 or 2 spoons a day. The last time we made the trip, it was so tiring I spent most of the time in bed looking out the window. Two days I went out in the wheelchair, then hobbled to the water. My home walls are covered in oil paintings of the ocean and beach and I have hundreds of shells outside and inside. And got the tshirts and caps on my teddy my bears🤣🤣🤣and bumper stickers and post a positive beach scene for the peeps on FB. And, also, money is tighter now. But thanks for thinking of me.

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pamgarner in reply to agapepilgrim

I know it is painful giving things up for this disease,ms keeps whittling away,not giving in yet.we will always have beautiful memories of our lives,i know what you mean roadtrip!it takes us 3 days to go 800 miles to see my 90 year old father,still going as long as I can,everyday is different

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IFwczs in reply to agapepilgrim

I used to love to swim, but I couldn't even go to the beach at the last beach vacation - they have some ancient stairs down. So my husband swam and I spent all day in bed looking at the sea out of the window and reading. We are doing it again this year (going to the same hotel). So I don't need to be stressed out on the sand about not being able to walk and break an ankle. Do you have the daily desk calendar "Islands"? It's fabulous!

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greaterexp

Yes, I’m a positive, “glass is full” kind of person. My sewing room is my happy place in general. Sitting next to my husband is another. Prayer time keeps me positive.

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kdali

I have to decompress sometimes also, nothing negative about handling your own crap!

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pamgarner

I also give credit to my maker,I do not take a step without saying thank you,depending on the day 1/2 empty and 1/2 full,I try very hard to put negativity behind me.this disease is a kick in the you know what.it is very hard when pain sits you down,you would think by now I would have it figured out!My happy place is anywhere outdoor and beside my hubby,I search out peace.

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Timeflies5

I like escaping to the ocean or river by me...or anywhere I can enjoy nature alone ...this makes me happy...I try to be a realist...I figure the trick in life is not to get too high or too low...just try to find that balance...during those times, I seek the wise mind that I feel only God can give, too..He keeps me grounded...and I take Him...everywhere...nice post, robster1!😊

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robster1 in reply to Timeflies5

Timeflies5 you struck a chord w/ me on:

“I figure the trick in life is not to get too high or too low...just try to find that balance.”

All I can say thank you & AMEN!

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Timeflies5 in reply to robster1

☺️🙏🏻

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Sweetheartonvdayl in reply to Timeflies5

I feel the same way, God. (My God is a foregivin , if u are true , u will feel the LOVE

GOD BLESS

LISA❤

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Timeflies5 in reply to Sweetheartonvdayl

God bless you too, friend! 🕊🙏🏻

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jimeka

Lovely post 👍

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Brindisi1

God is good all the time and his Light shines in the darkness.

Sometimes hard not to have a pity party because you are the only one there.

Keep up the hope and smile. (& hang in there)

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robster1 in reply to Brindisi1

Thank you so much Brindisi1!

I’m ok just like everybody I have my moments that I’m not very proud of. With Christ being my light I know where to turn, but sometimes the human gets lost in the battle. That’s why I sometimes get frustrated w/me. I recognize that I’m not the only one that does whacked out stuff, but it’s so cleansing to share it w/the folks who understand and truly care. Thank you all for your tremendous level of love & compassion for others. God bless you all.

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Sweetheartonvdayl in reply to Brindisi1

You're NEVER ALONE w/God in your life❤

God bless

Lisa

Hi robster1!

I'm sorry I haven't reached out to you,lately😔

Yes, I have a happy plac*e w/God in my life. I'm a "born again "

Christian.

I gave up& let God take over!!!

He's my "pilot", not co-pilot !!!

God bless

Lisa❤

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robster1 in reply to Sweetheartonvdayl

AMEN Sis!

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hairbrain4

We all have those days where the glass is half empty rather than half full. That is usually when we get complacent and let go of Jesus' hand and for those few moments try to do life by ourselves, but we trip and fall and feel bad, then mad, then beg for His hand again. Its ok as long as you are reaching for Jesus' hand. There will come a day when you realize that your hand and Jesus' are melded together and you won't let go and try to do life on your own. Staying in His word and fellowship with like minded people will help to keep you where you need to be. God Bless!

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robster1 in reply to hairbrain4

Thank you hairbrain4. Words of wisdom we all need to hear over & over. God bless you my friend.

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Christina49

I am still processing the change in my life. I am always grateful no matter.I have battled many things in my life, Some days I'm sad because I never saw this coming. My life has changed tremendously. My happy place is helping others and my kids. I have s 32 year old and ready for this...a 10 year old! My boys are my world. Having a relationship with God is my ultimate

happy place. It is here I am able to find peace and joy, sharing it with others😊

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falalalala

I am usually positive and in an upbeat mood.

It helps to indulge in some good old fashioned road rage!

jk :D

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mrsmike9

I have a chemical imbalance in my brain (inherited) that pushes depression on me. My therapist has been an angel, helping me to see myself differently so I am not nearly as bad as I was.

Usually camping is a happy place for me. Even if it's just a quick weekend. A mini vacation makes me happy. (A longer one puts me in heaven!) Just to get away from "real" life for a bit...

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robster1 in reply to mrsmike9

Yes & Amen!

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cljones

I am a postive person because I have a hope. Gods word gives us hope of a time when no one will say they are sick at Isa 33:24. That gives me a happy place, my faith. It also gives me a purpose in life. I stay as active as I can with my ministry. When I can share my faith with someone it makes me very Happy. There is no better feeling than being able to help others see that soon God's Kingdom will soon put an end to the problems we face.

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robster1 in reply to cljones

Yep. Now you’re talking my language!

God is so good. So many have no hope & it’s our role to share the good news w/others who don’t know about the message of hope that is offered to all through Christ. Praise Jesus!

Sweetheartonvdayl profile image
Sweetheartonvdayl in reply to robster1

Amen brother!

God bless

Lisa❤

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Sweetheartonvdayl in reply to cljones

So true.....

God bless

Lisa❤

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