Is it worthwhile to stay in an unhealthy marriage?

[Amerilove1]

Hi everyone!

I am currently married, but am weighing the options of getting divorced. My MS has been progressing mildly over the past six years and I don’t think he is mentally, financially, or emotionally at a place to be supportive while I battle this disease. I work full-time and often feel like a single-parent. I know it is important for me to take care of my mind, body, and spirit; but I am hesitate to divorce due to being fearful of the unknown that comes with being single and having a chronic illness. Do any single/divorced MSers feel like they have access to supports and resources that are able to help them through this journey? Just want to do some research beforehand.

[greaterexp]

I’m so sorry you are in a place where you are considering it. I know there are several members here who have faced divorce, so I hope they will chime in.

Do you have any support system, like family or good friends?

[Amerilove1 in reply to greaterexp]

I found a great job that allowed for me to move closer to family and they have been amazing! I think that was the wake up call.

[Royjr]

That’s a tough question. I don’t think the journey you’re talking about have a specific support group for that. I do know that there’s counseling couples can do. I think your local MS Society can direct you in the right direction for that. Talking to a preacher may help. Sometimes you need someone just to talk to that don’t have any bias interest to just listen and give advice if you request some. I truly wish you luck in whatever you decide to do. Keep your head up and think about your child (children) and do what’s best for you. Stay strong.

Royjr

[Amerilove1 in reply to Royjr]

Thank you!

[Royjr in reply to Amerilove1]

No problem👍🏼. If I can help further just hit me up.

[Iona60]

Prayers for the difficult decisions that you are facing.

[Jazzihorsecat]

Royr, gave u excellent advice, & Many deep Prayers for the difficult situation you're in.🙏🙏🙏😍 💐Many Blessings for ya!---Jazzy🌹💜