Needing a reminder to stay positive....

[Sadieschafer]

I was supposed to close on my new house yesterday- which would have given me less stairs, less maintenance in the yard, and basically just an easier way to function on those days when I feel like I have nothing left to give. Needless to say, we couldn't close on the new house because the people buying my current house spent all of the money they were going to use to close, so the deal didn't go through. I'm so angry, sad, disappointed at this point. I promised my two little boys we would have more time to spend together once we had a house with less maintenance. Since I'm a teacher and school is just around the corner, I was hoping all of this was going to be settled before the school year, and obviously I was wrong. Now, it's hard for me to see the light, even though I know there is one at the end of the tunnel. Please send some positive thoughts and prayers, I would greatly appreciate it.

[Juleigh21]

Sadieschafer I'm so sorry to hear about your loss of that home. Shame on your buyers for their irresponsible behavior! I truly do believe though, that when one door closes, God opens another one that's even better! Keep your chin up and good luck on the start of the school Year! This is the first one I won't be a part of in 24 years and it's harder than I thought it would be. Praying for you!

[Fattius]

well that stinks but maybe this is making a way for a better opportunity

[redman44]

keep your head up. this might lead to bigger and better things. seems like your a beliver in the almighty if so you know things don't work out sometimes on the first try you have to have faith that he will work it out in your favor

[rlh1974]

Sadieschafer That freaking sucks! I have been there! Try not to hunt them down and strangle them! All joking aside. I am truly sorry this has happened. I will be praying!!!!! Maybe they can come up with the money and actually close. Or another buyer comes along very very quickly so you do not loose the house you are trying to buy!

Love you all!

Rob

[Doubled51]

So sorry this happened. I went thru the same thing a couple of months ago. People signed a contract and led me on for 3 weeks then withdrew. But the next day when it went on the market it sold. Praying this happens to you. God will make a way. Blessing to you and your children.

Donnie

[melack01]

Praying this all works out!

[ssdw1958]

I will send you positive thoughts and prayers your way I hope you find the right people for your old house so that you can get in your new home 🏡. Keep on smiling.

[jimeka]

Sadieschafer dont stay angry for too long, as I am sure and I agree with what the others have said, God has something better for you, keep us posted, blessings Jimeka 🦋 🌈

[Nom_De_Plume]

Sadieschafer

Ooooh, I can imagine that is extremely disappointing! Argh!!! There is so much invested, emotionally, in buying a home!!

You requested a "reminder to stay positive" because it is hard to "believe there is light at the end of the tunnel" right now... even though you know there is light. I would offer that, perhaps, reflecting on how fortunate you are to have your two beautiful young boys, might make you feel better. You can then put on your teacher's hat 🎩 and think of what would make this situation a great "life lesson" that you could teach them. What trait (attitude, belief, virtue, skill) do you want to instill in them? Imagine them learning this important lesson from you. Then try to adopt this attitude or perspective to help you get through this difficulty. When this attitude/virtue proves to be successful, you can discuss this with them. This way, you'll have the opportunity to teach an amazing lesson to your boys. 👦🏻👦🏻💕 Once you have your "lesson plan" idea, you can sit down with them and explain how this is very disappointing right now, but ____ (insert philosophy you want them to learn) and this is how we're going to handle it because ____

You get the idea!

I am hopeful that, however you cope with this setback, your new home 🏡 is not too far off in the future! For your peace of mind, I pray that it will be very soon.

Our Church has a prayer request list and I will add your intention to that list!

Sadieschafer, PLEASE let all of us here know how/when your situation is resolved, okay??! 😀

[erash]

Sadieschafer so sorry things fell through. Sometimes it's difficult to stay positive especially when hopes are dashed and there's disappointment...coupled with the stress of the school year starting.

Focus on the things you can be grateful for. Find something to make you laugh.

Or Force a smile. Just the physical act of smiling can make you feel better (even when you aren't yet feeling the smile inside) 😊

[greaterexp]

Sadieschafer , I'm sorry your expectations were dashed. It never seems like a good time for that to happen, but I understand your feelings about the lousy timing.

I don't have any words of wisdom, but want you to know we're praying for you and your family for God's special comfort and peace. I'll pray that it won't be long before this is just a distant memory and even one you can smile about.

Keep us posted.

[gatorman15]

Sadieschafer I am sorry for your troubles. I am praying for better times for you and your family very soon. Hang in there.

[Diva1976]

Sadieschafer, I'm sorry this didn't work as planned. I know the man upstairs has bigger plans/opportunities coming shortly! You're in my prayers!

[Nom_De_Plume]

Sadieschafer Hello! 👋🏼 I was wondering how you're doing? After last month's huge disappointment around the purchase of your new home, I wanted to check in. Are you faring okay? How are the boys? How is your search going? How is school? Please let us know when you get a chance!

God bless you.

Lisa