Obvious answer... chocolate. I do not remember when I had a lasting strong erection. I walk fine, for a drunk. I can feel my feet. My prediabetes is very well under control. Viagra is doing its best to kill me, levitra I think it is called sort of work, but those rock ars erections are a thing of the past.
being totally honest, oral still works well even if my mouth is dead, but that is half the fun isn't it?
Glad to hear someone speak about the unspeakable!
umm I am slightly confused, what is unspeakable in this group?
Ha ha in this group, as it should be in all support type groups, there is no unspeakable, but in reality to many people are to embarrassed or feel that it is a private matter. If we cannot discuss it how can we understand the problems and figure out how to fix or work around them?!
I'm open to any unspeakables!!! ☺❤🌷
I am over 16 there is not much that is unspeakable
Exactly right Morllyn.
Let's be adults and talk about it.
Nothing pornographic just to the point questions w/ intelligent answers..
Agree. 😊❤🌷
I agree
Never had sex so chocolate 4 me
seriously chocolate is very good, sex can lead to all types of annoying consequences
you know i well me and my fiance are having some issues too, with all my health issues the cancer and the assault last year getting my nose broke and my problems from that then the cancer again it seems like it just isnt happening and last week we were so called getting intament ????? and it wasnt working for him either and I thought it might be me because of the double mastectomy, i did have reconstruction but it doesnt look the same and with the cancer drugs i have gained so much weight that i thought it was me the sight of me and i just broke down and cried LOL. well he has kidney issues and heart issues so i guess it was both of us. wow how can we have so much health issues at such a young age right!!! That was the first time we even wanted to in such a long time hmmm oh well
just cuddle, is always my go to
Hey. At least you haven't just given up.
Perhaps you can ask you partner what the definition of sex is to them. Sex without penetration, I mean. You might be surprised. Feeling satisfied has many different goals. Good luck
Good idea sex is not all about penetration
I just found this discussion & here's my 2 cents worth sex is only part of any relationship, my husband & I have just cuddled for the last couple of years as 1 or the other has a problem so we cuddle instead & that works for us.
very nice
I have noticed, since being diagnosed with MS, that orgasms are very hard to come by. Sometimes cuddling feels better than trying to reach the unreachable.
Yes I have noticed the same for both of us
Yes, I have noticed the same.
Needle in my penis, seriously that is a major mood killer, but more power to you if you can, I do not need an erection that bad.
lol CHOCOLATE Is a girls best friend, I get sex but prefer CHOCOLATE.
an honest woman
I vote chocolate any day
I like chocolate, but I am very weak when it comes to female bodies, at least I used to be.
I honestly don't care anymore. I wish he would cuddle with me. You've heard the saying, "All dressed up and nowhere to go?" I say, "All revved up and nowhere to go." It's frustrating. Orgasm? What's that???
Sorry, I do not mean to laugh, but I do understand, I think it is just getting older, intimacy seems to wane.
Agree! I still love my husband but...
understood
I agree completely!
Here we go again! This time Chocolate!!
