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[luvhair]

Why is it before i got sick could and did do everything for all family now i get no supportfrom any of them ,just kicked under the bus,i just have bad days i cant leave thank god a good friend will run pick up some things i need. No wonder so depressed,,i hate it..

[CalfeeChick CommunityAmbassador]

I am so sorry you are feeling down. I know I have had my down times too. MS sure does separate true friends and family fairly quick. I used to have a large circle of friends and now I believe it is down to under 8 that I see or offer to help me. My 2 daughters have distanced themselves from me like I have the plague. My husband is my hero! We have our times, but in his own way, he is always there for me. I lighten my load almost every evening when I read a few pages from one of my many bibles. I know the Lord has a plan for each of us and acceptance will bring peace. You will always have your MS family right here. Hugs to you, luvhair

[CalfeeChick CommunityAmbassador in reply to CalfeeChick]

luvhair If you have a minister or pastor to pray with, or just go to a church you are comfortable with, pray with them and give this MS monster to God- For the Lord has a plan for each of us, I can say I prayed with my pastor, even before I had a definite diagnosis. It has lightened my burden even though I still have my times.. It does help. Hugs, Lynn

[luvhair in reply to CalfeeChick]

Yes i have to get back into church..i know our pastor moved so i havent heard if his been replaced yet

[luvhair in reply to CalfeeChick]

Hugs to you

[CalfeeChick CommunityAmbassador in reply to luvhair]

Hugs 🤗 to you too. We all need our hugs😊💕

[luvhair in reply to CalfeeChick]

Yes we do,,it gets so lonely being all alone though😥

[CalfeeChick CommunityAmbassador in reply to luvhair]

@luvhair

I hear you about being/feeling alone. Even in a crowd, we can feel alone. Perhaps there might be an MS group nearby. This is a long shot, but check out your local library 📚 and their section of Ms books. I was doing that and met an older than me lady that has MS. We sat st a table and discussed Ms. We are cordual friends and see each other at the library. It helps to know That there are others near & far that share your feelings. Keep coming back here, for we can be your MS family. 😊💕 Lynn

[luvhair in reply to CalfeeChick]

Thank you xo

[RoyceNewton]

I think we all have gone through this at some time. Some of us sooner rather than later. This is what we can expect from this condition. In all honesty, we scare people, perhaps more than we scare ourselves. We have no choice, merely to accept others weaknesses, perhaps not understand them, but to accept them. Just acknowledge the betrayal and keep moving forward along your ms life path.

Turn from them and let them go, wish them the best and you move forward for you. Do what is best for you, that is what is important. Not meeting others expectations and wishes.

There are dreams and tasks that you must fulfil. Accept that they will not walk with you, but my friend, chin up. Remember them for what they were once and you keep moving.

ms is "DOABLE" but not for all.

[luvhair in reply to RoyceNewton]

Thank you

[RoyceNewton in reply to luvhair]

always my pleasure my dear

[erash]

While we can’t run to the store for you, think of this forum as your extended family. We are here to support each other. Hugs!

[luvhair in reply to erash]

Hugs..

[Jesmcd2 CommunityAmbassador]

You have gotten some expert advice luvhair 💕 I can only think of 1other, you can't change anyone but yourself. 🤗

It's sad that it happens, when we lose friends and family, sometimes because they don't understand, or they are scared. Heck half the time we don't know how to explain it🙊.

Hang in there! We gotcha!🤗💕

J🌠🎃

[luvhair in reply to Jesmcd2]

Xoxoxo

[bxrmom]

I am sorry you are going through this luvhair A lot of us have gone through it or are going through it now. Once I was unable to work or drive a lot of people distanced themselves. I know who I can count on now. Glad you have a good friend that helps you.

Jessie

[luvhair in reply to bxrmom]

Yea its really hard im just so shocked by this treatment i really am. Its horrible

[nicoly3467 in reply to bxrmom]

So true-I see who my close friends are during tough Ms times.

[Juliew19673]

Your not alone in this. I began to realize who was a "True" friend. Family - well they will now have to realize they can no longer expect you to do everything - it's a hard pill for them to swallow and it's one They need to take.

[luvhair in reply to Juliew19673]

Yepper

[luvhair]

Thank you guys!!

[Jazzihorsecat]

Oh Luvhair I totally understand, we all do sweety!😄😍 I divorced my family finally after my genius hub found out they really want me dead, offered to move me down to that noisy, stinky, yukky city they live in being all alone & no one to care for me!! Oh Puuleeease! Yuk!😜 After I got my new fone & # i kn0t giving it to them, i have mourned enuff!! I am done, it is what it is, my daughter too went & abondoned me as well, cuz she's been brainwashed against me! Grrr 😡by them (my adopted Mom& dad)! Oh well, gotta Keep On Truckin! "Kosmic Blues)!👍💪🙏😃😍

We all Love You & Praise YAH for this Family we now have here!💘💞💖💕💓💌---Jazzy🌹💜

[luvhair in reply to Jazzihorsecat]

Thank you it just so hurtful.

[lbenmaor]

Please don't feel bad. It's a natural reaction to what people go thru who are

in our MS Family. If you're too tired to go to the store you can go on your computer and order things on line.

At first I felt bad that I had to do that but I want to take the best care of myself and family as I can.

Best Regards,

Leslie

[luvhair in reply to lbenmaor]

Thts true..it just so lonely,jyst thrown under bus by whole family when i got this beast..the town im n i think only has one grocery store tht delivers i think..it mite just be they get ur food ready then u pik it up. I wish we had whole foods here amazon i think is in on that!

[lbenmaor in reply to luvhair]

luvhair,

I also like Whole Foods. Do you have Instacart.com? They deliver from Whole Foods. Peadpod.com

and RocheBrothers.com deliver similar items.

Best Regards,

Leslie

[luvhair in reply to lbenmaor]

No we dont i wish we did

[luvhair in reply to lbenmaor]

Thank you

[Jazzihorsecat]

Yes, luvhair, they do have that, & i think they deliver anywhere or very close by. If you explain to ur grocery place tht ur disabled, I think they'll deliver to you, most do for us disabled. Hope tht helps u. Love Ya dear sis!💞💖💓💌😻😍 & Many Prayers🙏& Blessings for ya.---Jazzy🌹💜

[luvhair in reply to Jazzihorsecat]

Thank you

[4Rosie]

Yes, it sucks. No one understands. Talk to your neurologist. Talk to a therapist. Love yourself. Good luck!

[luvhair in reply to 4Rosie]

Thabk yoy it does sux really bad

[nicoly3467]

Luvhair-I am sorry you’ve not had your family help and support you since MS. That must be so hard to deal with and it’s not fair they are not there for you in return. Nikki

[luvhair]

Thank you nikki..its really hard.