I am a dog lover. I am 57 and have never lived without a dog(s) in my life. Until yesterday. I had to make the decision to euthanize my beloved dog. You should my face today. I cried a river.
With my health going downhill and living below the poverty line, plus my husband does not want another dog. There is a huge void in my life. I don't know how I will get past this.
I am concerned because I am having min-panic attacks. It feels like my heart will jump a little bit, then I feel short of breath.
Heartbroken in Tennessee.
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I know how you feel. They become part of the family. When I lost my dog. I couldn’t replace her because she had this personality that made you think she was human sometimes.You could tell when she was thinking about something and I would just watch her put her plan in action.
I have never had a dog but I am sort for your loss I had a boss a number of years ago and her dog had to be put down the week before Christmas’s and she was sorry for being upset and I told her not to worry about it, it’s like losing a part of your self. She was happy that I understood what she was going through.
A few of us on here can totally relate to what you are going through. It’s hard to explain the love that you can feel for a dog, and the way that love is reciprocated. Let the grief out when ever you feel like it. Don’t keep it in otherwise pent up grief can set the ms off. Also give yourself time before you do get another dog. If it’s right one will show up. Hugs Jimeka 🤗
I am so sorry to hear about your loss 😢. We love our furbabies and they are just like our kids. They give us so much unconditional love 💕 I am not sure if I could live without a furbabie 🤷🏼♂️. My prayers are with and maybe in time your husband will change his mind 🙏🐾 Ken
Vicarder, it's Fancy1959. I have been in your shoes and I understand your heart being ripped in two. It's like losing a child when you've lost the dog that has been your companion through thick and thin for year after year. No matter that our brain knows we have to stop our beloved pet from suffering so much our heart just cannot come to terms with it. Understand that you are not crying over this alone. I'm sending you a big hug through this electronic connection. If it feels damp it's because I'm crying along with you. And understand that there are many many others who are crying along side of us to share in your grief. Know your beloved pet is now free of pain and is looking down from heaven keeping tabs on you just like always. Fancy.
My heart goes out to you. Though I wouldn't describe myself as an ardent dog-lover, I cried like a baby when we had to put our dog down. I hadn't realized that he had become such an important part of my life. They really are amazing creatures in how they relate to us and can be a great comfort.
I'll be praying for God's wonderful peace and comfort as you adjust and grieve. Come and vent here as often as you need to. We have loads of folks who understand.
I am so very sorry for your loss vicarder . It is never easy to lose a pet. I'm sorry your husband does not want another pet in the home. Maybe with time, he will change his mind? Can you volunteer at a local shelter to help with the animals? I know it's not having your own but it could help to be with the animals.
I also wanted to send this to you:
Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.
When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.
There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.
There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.
All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.
The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.
They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.
You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.
When you really and truly love animals they become part of the family and your lives. I do know what you are going through and you are in my prayers. Any animal, doesn't matter what it is - if you give them love and kindness they will give it back to you twofold. Maybe you could become involved with a rescue group and look after the odd dog when you feel up to it rather than have one full time. If that doesn't suit you perhaps you could get involved with some charity work or something similar to give you another interest until your heart heals from the loss of your beloved family pet.
Thank you all so much. This is an amazingly supportive community. My vision isn't great and I don't get to participate here much, but you guys are great.
so sorry...I love animals...more than most people...😁 I have had to make the same decision many times in my life but as much as it hurt I also know it was the most selfless thing I could have done at the time. My prayers are with you...
I'm so very sorry for your loss. I understand the pain you are feeling. I don't have any human children. All of my children have had four legs. The loss of one is overwhelming. But please remember that the pain you are feeling will ease with time. And these sad memories will eventually be overtaken by happy and sweet memories of your beloved pet. Please know I care.
i had to put my beloved lucky down last fall,but i had her friend garth grieving with me,hes the beagle my grandson gave me earlier in the spring,he is great,talk your hubby into a beagle they are the sweetest,no trouble
I am so sorry for the loss of your fur baby child. They are such a big comfort in our lives. It’s always very difficult to make the best decision for them and I’m sure that’s what you did. Perhaps your hubby will come around and let you pick out another fur baby when you are ready. We had to make the same decision for our sweet Freddie kitty a few years ago. We still miss him, but a friend told us about a really nice stray that had been hanging around his place. That stray jumped into my lap and came home with us. That was 6 yrs ago and he is the best kitty ever. I pray for your comfort and solace in the loss of your fur baby. Remember the good times, doggie will always be in your heart ❤️
My heart aches for you I know what you are talking about. I am 77 and have had dogs all my life they are your best friends. I just lost my last one (wich I know my husband sent to me) a year ago. I can no longer have any for I no longer drive so would be unable to get her to the vet. I would adopt an older dog if possible. My husband was an animal lover but he had a special connection with them. I will keep you in my thoughts and you dwell on all the good memories . When you are ready adopt again
My heart breaks for your loss. You truly made the most selfless decision for your fur baby. It is also the hardest one to make. I lost my Abby almost 3 years ago and I cry for her all the time. I felt the older I got the harder each loss had become and I swore I did not want another dog. Then one day it came to me that I did and we got another dog. Not a replacement for Abby, it never is. We got Bamboo now a puppy also. But when Bamboo and Timber are near the end of their lives my husband and I will be even older and I don't know what this monster disease MS will have in store for me by then, so I sometimes think I would not have another dog at that time. If I were not allergic to cats, I would definitely have one at that time. Perhaps you can get a cat who will give and receive your love? They don't require walking as a dog does, so in many ways are an easier family member. My sister-in-law would love another dog, but with my brother being disabled post-stroke, that was just not in the cards so they got a cat and are so happy with her! Just a suggestion for you.
Substitute "dog" and make it "cat" and that's me. We have a dog now (my husbands') and 3 cats (mine). I have had 2 over the years that were particularly close to me. An extension of my heart! When I had to have my beloved babies put down, I cried for weeks. Even now, years later, if I think of them much I will cry. I had my babies cremated so when I'm gone and cremated, our ashes will be intermingled...still a part of me. So I get it. So sad for you...
Good morning, I know exactly how you feel. I have had dogs in my life always. The worst is having to put them down. I still remember them all. They bring so much joy to us. I hope it all gets better for you.
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