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I need to vent. . . .

Today, work was going great. I felt productive and was managing my obsessions. A co-worker informed me a lot of positions are being reviewed at work. She told me a co-worker was moved to a lower paying position and only given a weeks' notice. Now all I can think about is my position, and I have the need to seek reassurance from my supervisor. This thought will be with me for an indeterminate about of time.

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IStillHaveHope

I'm sorry to hear that you're having a difficult time right now. Uncertainty is the worst for OCD and I understand that completely. I don't know if this will help, but try and stay in the now and try to live just a day (or a few moments) at a time. No matter what happens (even if it's scary for a bit) it will be fine.

Also keep us up to date on how your doing :-)

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KatJ1982 in reply to IStillHaveHope

Thank you for the advice. I will try some CBT techniques and hopefully it will help.

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davidovergoliath

Hi there.. Wow! I feel this way often. Whenever the upper Mngt is meeting I think it’s about me. I just do everything I can to distract myself and turn my back on the overwhelming desire to ask my immediate boss if they are talking about me..

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KatJ1982 in reply to davidovergoliath

Thank you for the reply. It’s nice to know I’m not alone in my thinking. It will definitely be hard not to ask my boss. I’ll try some CBT techniques.

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Gavriel

check out Recovery International online for tried and true techniques of changing your thoughts. God Luck

Gavriel

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KatJ1982 in reply to Gavriel

Thank you! I will check it out.

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