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hi

it’s with a heavy heart that i write this. on Thursday Dave lay down and closed his eyes for the last time.

No warning he just went a sleep - got up as usual made coffee - saw me off to work -he died 30 mins later

He was so afraid of this horrible disease and now he’s free of the sleepless nights worrying about the future.

please make sure you live your best life and make memories whilst you can

Look after each other xx

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Monkeyfeet1

I’m so sorry 😢

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FredaE in reply to Monkeyfeet1

so sorry and so glad.. Sometimes this evil disease is surprisingly kind at the end

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Derkie54

So sorry to hear your news.

Our thoughts are with you at this sad time.

Take care

Derek

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Yanno

So sorry Bev, our thoughts are with you. Be happy that the worry is over and look back with joy at your time together.

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Kaye31

that is so sad, lots of love xxx

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Bluebarn123

I'm so sorry to hear this.Take care of yourself

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Gill-C

Such sad news and hard for you not to have had a proper goodbye. Hold on to the fact that you don’t have to watch Dave in a slow decline, with all his worst fears coming true.

Do stay on the forum if you feel up to it. You will have a lot of experience to share with others.

Thinking of you

Gill x

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Bevsatty in reply to Gill-C

thanks x

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Meg5824

So sorry Bev,. Thank for reminding us to live our best lives while we can.

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Diane831

that must have been such a shock for you, and I am sure that you don’t quite know what to do with your emotions. You will have been carrying your own worries for the future alongside hopes for some good days. I hope that you are able to take the time you need to process all this, and do get some bereavement support if necessary. We all cope differently, just be yourself and be kind to yourself.

As you say he no longer has to dread the future. Remember the man he was before all this.

Diane

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Craft7

As others have said thoughts are with you . And thank you for the reminder to make the most of every day as with this condition the next day is uncertain .

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Fatwallet

so sorry to hear this sad news. Stay strong and take care of yourself x

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TF-January2024

I am so sorry for your loss

TF

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GreenJo

So sorry to hear this sad news - thinking of you. Take care

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Andy-man

Dear Bev,

Denise and I were very sorry to hear your news of Dave's death. Both he and you made a great impression on us when we met last August. He was someone who you don't forget - in a good way that is.

Please can you pass on our condolences to Dave's mum.

Andrew

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Bevsatty in reply to Andy-man

hi andrew

it was such a shock. i hope you and Denise are managing ok.

Thanks for the kind words

Beverley

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brianski

Hello BeI'm both happy and saddened to hear your

News. Privately I reckon that many of us wish for the same exit for ourselves.

May I wish you happiness in your future life, do what makes you happy, accepting every help offered. You deserve all good things.

With kind wishes and sympathy,

Brian

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Niknak74

I'm so sorry to hear this Bev, however as a few have said, it's a kinder end that some have. That of course is the only comfort, but when the dust settles and you process the loss of someone special as I have, looking back you can remember with a smile all the wonderful things you shared and the time you were afforded together.

Look afterself and much love to you and your family xx

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esj20

my thoughts are with you at this time.

Yours,

Alec

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SDSDYew

I'm so very sorry for your loss. Sending love ❤️

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leroybrown

Very sorry to read this Bev. May Dave Rest in Peace.

Exactly one week after my wife died. I hope you can also take comfort in the knowledge that Dave's struggle is now over.

Mind yourself 💕

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Bevsatty in reply to leroybrown

Thanks - sorry about your wife - i hope you are looking after yourself - Beverley

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MinasGerais

Our hearts go out to you at this difficult time.

No doubt you'll be able to look back on the good times and have happy memories.

You are in our thoughts and prayers,

Michael and Sonia.

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Bevsatty in reply to MinasGerais

Thanks 💕💕

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Whitefeather1

Bev, I'm so sorry for your loss. It's hard, I know. I'm still processing the loss of my dear friend. Be kind to yourself and take each day as it comes. Caroline x

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DeeMilo25

so sorry for your loss xx sleep tight Dave at least he’s free now xx

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janecbain

So sorry that he left you without warning that must’ve been a shock! But for him a good way to go! Take care of yourself now and enjoy what life has to give you.

Take care

Jane

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Carolha29

I’m so sorry to hear of your loss, my heart goes out to you.

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Spangle2000

So sorry to hear this sad news but glad he’s no longer suffering. Thinking of you.

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