Must of explained this to friends family a thousand times but this feeling just won't go away. I'm tired of going over and over the same thing to be honest.
Basically wife of 3 years has decided she no longer wants to be with me anymore and has taken our little boy (2 years) abroad to live with her parents, despite being from the uk.
We have recently moved back from living in Dubai as my job was no longer available, I got on my feet within a month and have a good job and nice flat and was able to provide for her and my son like I always have done.
There is little reasoning behind her actions and she is now basically telling me if I want to see my son I have to travel there as she is struggling to get by and has no money to travel here or at least no firm plans.
Due to my job commitments and the cost of flights hotel car hire etc I am only able to go once per year... Why do I deserve this when I have been a good husband and father?
Basically now I feel like I have nothing good in my life, I am going to work simply to pay of a flat that I am coming home to sit alone in. I have no self confidence and cannot imagine meeting anyone new and even if I did would never trust them.
I was such an optimistic and had an attitude of non defeat but I cannot see the light at th end of the tunnel. The main thing is not being able to be a part of my sons life and not having the ability to change this...
Family are tired of talking about it and just don't know what to do now to get out of this what feels like a bottle less pit of sadness and loneliness.
It's been 5 months now am I just being weak or what?..