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Hello.

I had zsr circumcision with frenuloplasty for tight foreskin 1 year back. During sex i am not able to hold erection for ejaculating..i am not feeling pleasurable sex also.. Before circumcision i did not had these problems..Can anyone tell what happend to my penis..pls guys

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Ocean-finance

Do you moisturise the glans

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Mahi1 in reply toOcean-finance

No..is moisture will help..if yes please suggest which mosituris i need to use

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Ocean-finance in reply toMahi1

I suggest that you start moisturising that glans as soon as possible to try to soften up the skin as it looks like you allowed the skin to dry out and create hard layers of skin meaning your glans has really been desensitised. Try using bio oil 2 times a day all over the glans inner skin and frenulum area. Or you can use E45 but can be messy. CeraVe cream which is brilliant with the bio oil throughout the day.

Being cut is totally different I get you it’s kinda sad I’m having some issues still getting used to my circumcision big RIP. Got it done for medical reasons

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Mahi1 in reply toOcean-finance

Thank you for your suggestion..hope this will solve my problem

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jaglad

Bio oil is god but can be expensive, try Cocoa butter or coconut oil. Holding an erection was one of my issues following surgery. I did turn to using Viagra or similar but important thing is do not stress about it. Still enjoy your sex and if needed try and ejaculate from masturbation, use lube or as I sometimes do, silky underwear.Good luck

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Mahi1 in reply tojaglad

Thank you for your suggestion....now how is your sexlife after using lubricants and viagra..still facing any issues..

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jaglad in reply toMahi1

No all is generally good now. There was a stage where if I may lose my erection during sex then I would struggle to regain it. Whereas pre-surgery, a quick 'tug' would have me hard in no time. Now the thing to remember and actually convince my wife, is that it doesn't matter. Carry on and enjoy the ride. We still occasionaly use lubricant if required and viagra for special ocasions.

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jaglad in reply tojaglad

Ha, Just re-read my post, bio Oil is good but certainly not God 😊

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Harsh_patel

Before circumcision also you can sex?? Mild phimosis?

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Mahi1 in reply toHarsh_patel

It is possible..some people may feel discomfort some may not..but after facing my problems i will not recommend circumcision..

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Harsh_patel in reply toMahi1

Yes bro.. before circumcision flaccid you can pull foreskin only in erection time foreskin tight?? What your age bro?

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Mahi1 in reply toHarsh_patel

I was not able to pull skin in flaccid state also.. U can try with phimostop medical device it may be usefull ..personelly i did not use this..but research on it..only in worst condition go for partial circumcision

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Mahi1 in reply toMahi1

And 1 more think.. doctor will say like u dont get any problems i am doing surgerys since 20 years like that..but dont trust them..in my case also it was happened

All your sexual life you had Phimosis, you are now experiencing erections and sex without the constriction of a tight foreskin. The constriction was keeping your penis erect longer, and sexual pleasure was via your foreskin and shaft. You are adjusting to the sensations via your glans. Adjustment takes time. Also your Doctor isn't the one who got circumcised, you were, so how would he know what you are going through? Doctors go for the quickest, cheapest fix and circumcision fixed your Phimosis. Also the frenulum is the most sensitive part of your penis as far as pleasure is concerned, and yours was removed.

Me, I would find another doctor.

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Thank you for your reply. What should i do to keep erection longer and to get pleasurable sex..please give suggestion.

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