My hubby had VM 3 yr ago and we both get frustrated at each other over trying to cope with the long lasting effects it’s had on him/family. Can anyone relate? Advice please? It’s terrible to watch him deteriorate yet has no desire to try to over come this. I try to get him to walk, exercise, swim anything but not a chance. He sleeps all of the time, family comes over (grandkids) he rushes off to bedroom to escape. I try really hard to be sympathetic but it’s so frustrating to understand him and this horrible virus.