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Money left for activities for our 23 year old son in residential care

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Our 23 year old son who has Down’s Syndrome, Autism and is classified as DeafBlind has recently moved into a residential care setting where he is really happy and does lots of activities e.g. swimming, sensory centre visits etc. He needs a consistent timetable of sensory activities and his Deafblind report recommends that these should be funded.

The LA are undertaking a financial assessment and want to take all his benefits leaving him only around £30 a week left as ‘spending money’. They argue that he can use the spending money to fund the activities. In actual fact this wouldn’t cover his activities and he would be left with nothing for other expenses e.g. hair cuts, snacks etc.

Does this seem correct in anybody else’s experience?

** Just an update: we sent estimated weekly costs and receipts to the LA along with stating the reasons why we felt he needed these activities as recommended by his Deaf blind report and also for his well-being. The LA have agreed to offset these costs and have lowered the financial contribution our son is expected to make . Thanks everyone for your help. **

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DrSarahmac

it doesn’t sound right. If you have report saying he needs these activities and he couldn’t afford them under this arrangement then their proposal is not aligned with his needs. I’d challenge it.

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BlueSky444 in reply to DrSarahmac

Thanks, yes we feel this way too. We’ve certainly been challenging it but just wanted to sound other people out to make sure we weren’t missing anything.

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Moeketsi

l agree challenge it, they seem to be a level of injustice there ..... how he going to live with 30p

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greenapple123_

Can you please keep us up to date with how you get on as I am in a similar situation with my SS saying they only fund care. Activities have to be funded by my son, but like you say, financially that is impossible.

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BlueSky444 in reply to greenapple123_

Sorry to hear that- will do. It seems very unfair doesn’t it?

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BlueSky444 in reply to greenapple123_

I’ve updated my post above.

Hello Bluesky.

It's shocking that the LA wants to leave your son with so little money for activities. £30 would just about cover two cinema tickets and some popcorn where I live!

Please do get in touch with our helpline who might be able to advise you on this. mencap.org.uk/contact/conta...

I hope you don't mind me asking but we're always looking for case studies of people hit by unfair social care charges from their council. Would you be happy to share your experience with our storytelling lead? You could share your story as an anonymous quote, if you prefer. Let me know if that's of interest to you. My email address is victoria.wright@mencap.org.uk if you'd like to email me.

Best wishes,

Victoria from the campaigns team.

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BlueSky444 in reply to VictoriaCA_Mencap

The LA has now agreed to allow for the cost of activities plus other expenses (see update above) so that our son’s contribution towards care has been lowered. We’ll certainly contact the helpline in future. Thanks for replying.

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VictoriaCA_Mencap in reply to BlueSky444

I'm so pleased to hear that :)

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