I hate when my care team call my pads, nappies.

[parasiticworm]

I think this is so disrespectful.

[SpeedyH]

Absolutely, I agree with you. Words matter and that is disrespectful. If you have a care manager or keyworker you could write them a note telling them what you would like them to say instead.

[Annabellelily Community friend]

I’m sorry to hear this, I completely agree with SpeedyH, words do matter and can be disrespectful and very hurtful. I think writing a quick note or email with what you’d prefer they say is a great idea, because while it is hurtful, I’m sure they don’t intend it to be

[Jofisher]

yeeeeeeeeeees your an adult tell them that this hurts and offends you and it definitely is disrespectful.

[DrSarahmac]

yes this is definitely disrespectful. It may be habit and they may be unaware so do tell them or write a note as has been suggested and ask for it to be recorded on your care notes. They are providing a service to you and are charged with “caring”for your needs. This should matter to them. If it continues after you’ve raised it come back to the group and we can help you work out how to escalate it in a way that you’re comfortable with. BTW are they kept in a box or area where a label could be added with instructions ?