I have a friend with a mental disability who lives in the UK. Let's hide her behind the name Anna for now.
Anna lives with her mother. Her mother has a serious drinking problem. It’s gotten so bad that she’s been putting Anna in risky situations due to questionable drunken acts. Anna often starves at home because her mother is too drunk to buy food. She prioritizes alcohol above food.
Anna has no one else to turn to. Not a single relative cares for her. She also has no friends in the entire country because of her disability. I live in a different country and have no immediate way of helping her in-person. I know her as an online friend for 4 years.
She receives benefits because of her disability, but she needs her mother to actually purchase things because of her disability.
Anna understands that the only way she can help herself is to take action on her own. She wants to do this so much. However, her mental disability makes it impossible for her to communicate with people in-person.
I want to call emergency services because I fear for her safety. But, I also don’t want to do something that might make her situation even worse instead. She gets incredibly stressed out when around unfamiliar people in unfamiliar places.
She is in dire need of people that can (subtly) give her a safe place and help her grow as a person. I would love to hear anyone’s advice on what the best options are to get her the care she needs and deserves.
I have been giving her as much attention and care as I possibly can. But, there is a clear limitation on what can be done via the internet. It has also started to take a toll on my own mental health.
Looking forward to hearing from anyone. Thank you.