Hi there, I'm 41 and have a 7 year old adopted son with my husband who has stage 4 NSCLC.behich has spread to his lymph nodes. To date he has not wanted treatment, trying alternative methods instead. This seems to have slowed down the growth but not stopped it. We are due at the oncologist tonight as my husband has completely lost his voice which is apparently a common symptom. I am scared for our future, our son is really struggling (he also has FASD from birth mother drinking in pregnancy) he has so many issues, I have a great circle of friends but no family locally and don't really know where to start in trying to keep our family together. I work part time in a job I love but does not offer much flexibility. I feel like I'm drowning and we've not even got to the worst of it yet. Do any of you have young children going through the same? How are you managing to cope?