Dear all, I joined this group in order to find more information from people living through similar experience of having a loved one in intensive care. My dad is 83 and he’s been hospitalised for 30 days now. He is in what seems to be vegetative state followed by two weeks in a coma. He was there due to a fall in the first place which he survived well however had a heart attack two days after he was in the icu. They resuscitated him but since then he’s unconscious. He opens his eyes and we talk to him but his mind seems to be elsewhere. He has kidney problems but his body is not handling dialysis anymore. They are giving him morphine. Me and my family feel hopeless and we don’t want him to suffer anymore... it’s hard to think properly and know what’s the right thing to do. Thank you, much love and best wishes to all.
Over 80, a month in the ICU: Dear all, I joined... - ICUsteps
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