I think they should abolish the disclosure law , especially with new medications and the limited risks of infecting someone if you are Undetectable . The Stigma around living with this is terrible and the reality that Ive found is that majority of people like myself keep stum, its been a journey of learning and understanding the consequences of having hiv and disclosing it to others before a meet, this often leads to rejection and gossiping. The hypocrites what judge you are more likely to pass Hiv to someone else than me as they are all like minded guys and into awsome skin on skin fun how it always should of been before this shitty virus come along.
Ive never felt so free to explore my sexuality but the prejudice and stigma does get to me and Ive found its much easier to lie and deny it because thats how you have to survive and I know many others who do the same to survive because they have to despite the law and the reality.. These HiV charities need to focus there efforts on educating people about status and meds and being undetechable and limited risk and give something back to the people living with it , not just preventing people from getting it which ironically can build a stigma initself. I admire people who stand up and be counted and wear hiv on there sleeve ie but I dont want live like that because the stigma is too bad and like I said its easier living as if your negative to save the negativity and rejection..
18 Months on and I,m still learning and getting used to it and I just hope it doesnt stop me finding a soulmate one day.
Merry Christmas Everyone