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my wife thinks that i just ignore her, don't pay any attention to her or that i just don't care. How can i show her she is wrong.

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For many years now i have been told i take my wife for granted, this makes me angry and confused because i try in my own way to try make her feel special, but it is obvious to me that she feels let down. We both know now about my head injury from years ago and as i keep repeating, this answers so many questions for me that i was never able to make sence of all those years going back. I often feel the only way forward for us both, is me going this myself and supporting my wife and kids financialy. Are there any other people on this site going, or been through the same situation, and if so, how did you deal with it.

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formula

i think this is a tale of you don't no what you have till its gone ! sort of role reversal here i spent 11 years by myself after my bike accident and i yearned for someone close and special as a partner i just needed some kind of rock in my life to turn to .. on the other hand a lot of bloke's do what your doing without a head injury !

My best Wishes to you and your family

Paul

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bikerlifestyle

i will private message you

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Mikesghost

There are a million sites on the net that will explain what women want from men, here is a link that will get you started. I should maybe read these myself!

uk.askmen.com/dating/heidi_...

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leeleeleelee

its a lonly place on own

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