why am i so alone im 25 and only been in 1 relationship am i really that bad?

[nick_01]

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Of course not! You're still young and you've been through a lot. Recover, then settle the issue in your own mind first and then everything else will fall into place. All the best!

[nick_01]

thanks my accident was in 2007 i thought i had delt with most things and fed up now of being alone all the time

[ricozoe]

ope u feel ok soon i was in a relationship wth my sons dad fr 20 years i ended it 3 yrs ago but i realy believe theres someone out there fr everyone im 49 n havnt found mine yet but if its meant to happen it will

[davesdad]

Hello Nick, I know from your previous posts that it is hard for you to get out and that you have some difficulty communicating even when you do. You communicate really well on this board, have you looked around on line to see if there are other boards that you could read and maybe contribute to? I don't mean heath subjects but music or science fiction or history or anything else that you might want to know more about. I know you have also said that you are not interested in anything much, forgive me for saying this but you need take an interest in things so that you can share an interest with someone else and so build a relationship.

Meeting on line by talking about something you have a joint interest in can lead to real friendship - I started chatting to someone on a flight simulation board and then we started to exchange emails. He is now one of my closest friends even though he lives over 6000 miles away.

You have fought really hard to get to where you are and I admire you for that. It is good that you are asking for help, keep on communicating with whoever you can however you can! I feel sure that the strength of your personality will come through and friendships will follow.

God Bless

[nick_01 in reply to davesdad]

thank you