am i the only one after a sah to be too trusting of others

[ncmurphy1951]

i suffered a sah in dec 2007 after a high levelk business life but since being discharged in mar 2009 i have been conned out of £2000 the latest a chap offering to get me some shopping walkinhg off with my £10 never to be seen again am i the only gullable one please

[bikerlifestyle]

no, i trust people too much too, i find it hard to read people so tend to trust people until thy show me they can't be trusted.

best thing is get someone who can ask each time you spend money, i don't carry money now, just a debit card

[spartan300]

trust no one the only person you can trust is yourself ,i have seen too many people conned out of money goods property etc,i take care of my own money i do not tell anybody how much i have so that makes me a small target the more information others have on you the easier it is for them to steal from you inc the goverment in power, i do not know your situation but try as i do to take care of yourself , i know this can be hard but you will become more aware

[ncmurphy1951]

spartan thank you it is a truly sad and maybe evil person who can live with themselves after stealing from a 51 yo disabled person their day of judgement will arrive the last loan incl the odd cup of tea i give anyone i havent known for more than 5 years