Desperately seeking advice as believe my son is on the verge of a breakdown.
He sustained severe TBI in December 2018, and had craniotomy in March 2019. Was in Kings College Hospital in London for 3 months then went home to wife and 3 year old daughter. Attended 2 rehab programs at Wolfson Unit as an outpatient and then returned to full time work that September.
Since then has been thru acrimonious divorce and child custody proceedings, been declared bankrupt and has lost 3 jobs since 2019 due to lack of interest/work ethic. He had social blunting and very little patience which is hampering his career.
Drinks to excess (and can become violent and aggressive, smokes excessively and partakes in smoking copious amounts of weed every day. Is a virtual recluse and has cut all ties with life long friends. Doesn’t talk very much even when in the company of close family. Has no interest or compassion for anything or anyone. Excessively overweight (20 stone now) as comfort eats constantly. Not the same person that he was before the accident. Acts impulsively and puts himself in dangerous situations - got drunk and beaten up last week!
Please can anyone tell me who I should look to for help - I’m worried sick that he is either going to kill himself or someone else.
He is not under the care of either Kings College or Wolfson and had not had any aftercare since being discharged in 2019.