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So the last three days or so they have been doing the wean trials to get him off the ventilator and he's done 8,10,12 hours by him self. Today the goal is a full 24 hours. So I am hoping he can he is a strong guy and he's done so well. Also they plan to move him upstairs ans out of icu which is great the program is a ltac and they have treated my grandmother so I do like their service. I made sure the same neuro and doctors will still be able to follow up

Only gripe is that I have no real control and it's difficult when the child in this case the daughter doesn't like me and I need to make sure decisions will be made in his best interest. It's so difficult situation far I've been working with the father who has been supporting me but I just want It to stay that way. I don't need the estranged daughters interference I have enough to worry about.

So hopefully he gets moved soon and out of ICU. BEEN PRAYING for you all and continue too.

Armani and Tony

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You must be holding your breath today m'love ; I really, really hope Tony's independent breathing holds up, meaning there's another big 'tick' against his progress. Look after yourself Armani. Look forward to your next update. Cat xx

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HopeforTony in reply to cat3

Thanks as always yes I do as well

Once Tony is on the road to recovery, your life is going to be very full - do try to look after yourself, eat well and sleep when you can. You will need all your mental and physical strength.

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I know it's just so hard to do normal things when you've done then with someone for so long. I can only sleep when Tony cuddles me so I haven't been sleeping too well. Also I feel so guilty eating and have lost some weight. I am trying though. Thanks so much I still pray for you everyday.

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LindaHannah

With a bit of luck Tony may be able to say what he wants, and who he entrusts.. If his Father is happy keeping you on board like he has been then keep this for now. Maybe his Father can help with the daughter if needs be. Things are still looking up for Tony as his need for ICU is no longer indicated - or nearly not. Lots of love to you 💞

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HopeforTony in reply to LindaHannah

I didn't even see this so sorry. Yes you are right thanks Alot xx

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