A cancer scar, my daughter going to uni so I will be alone, my dads heart op and the anniversary of my crash that I find so hard. Advice I give, it's a passing phase, things will improve bla bla. I feel pants I want a hug. Anything else to chuck at me ????? I can't even tell anyone how I feel cause they already lost me once. I thank julels for keeping me with hope

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  • I'm chucking a big squidgy hug across the stratosphere Candy. Hope it'll all look more manageable in tomorrow's daylight.

    Night night m'dear ..................sleep well. xxx

  • Night Hun, thank you. My brain just doesn't know where to start first, it's confused xx

  • All that will keep 'til you're in a better frame of mind ; make a conscious effort now to push it all aside and sleep.

    As Scarlet O'hara said ; 'Tomorrow Is Another Day' ..................... hopefully a better one ?? I bet between us all, we can make it a better one ! Sweet dreams. xx

  • Yep that feeling gone today thank goodness, just a passing phase ๐Ÿค— should take my own advise lol

  • Here's a hug :)) totally understand what you're saying and feeling....,wishing you a peaceful day xx

  • Thank you Hun. It was a lovely hug and I so needed that ๐Ÿ˜‰

  • Hi Candy, here's one from me too, but I need one back, OK?

    I'm sitting the days out and hoping that better one comes along

    Janet x

  • Thank you Janet. I needed it yesterday but I'm feeling better today. All these magic hugs to here is a bid massive one back ๐Ÿ‘‹๐Ÿ‘„๐Ÿ‘‹

  • Wow. Your daughter is going to uni. How great is that! Celebrate what she has to look forward too and share her joy. It's tough doll I know as we all do. Just one more thing that life throws at us to see how hard we can bat it back. You'll be fine. Listen to yr own advice-it's the best - it's just a passing episode. Here is a huge enormous hug- all warm and cuddly. Hang on in there - Rock on!!! Xx

  • Lol it was a passing phase ๐Ÿ™„x

  • It could be worse .....this forum may not exist.

    Seriously like has been mentioned celebrate your daughter going to uni....believe me you may miss her when shes gone but enjoy when she visits home more.

    They say theses things are sent only to test us. Personally I am sick of these exams.

    Keep on ploughing on

    Pax ....biiiiggggg huuuug

  • Thanks Hun for the hug. I think getting into uni was fantastic then the next day /yesterday reality kicked it. I can't stand her but love her and we just don't get on since the crash. She is scared of leaving and cries a lot , argh stress. Back to normal today. She's screaming abuse at me and I can't wait for her to go ๐Ÿ˜†

  • Just remember without the bad the days you wouldn't appreciate the good ones.

    Plus a meltdown now and then is gives you chance to rebuild and come back.

    Not so great myself at moment just hoping its not another stage of adjustment.


  • I send you a cuddle hug then xx

  • Aha, the feisty Candy's returned ! Good to see you've got your mojo back m'dear............... xx

  • Yep I'm back. Little bit of a me me and me meltdown moment but I is back today ๐Ÿค—xx

  • Welcome back girl !! ;-) xx

  • ๐Ÿ˜˜xx

  • A big hug comes from me as a new member we have to have all these things thrown at to make us tough xx

  • A big hug from me too ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ’•

    My brain too can feel so overwhelmed at times, but it always passes xx

  • I think my brain went into shut down mode. To much to think of a same time. Can't do multi thinking now, Iv turned into a man lol xx

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