Hi, I'm about to start ivf after more than 2.5 years of ttc, I have endometriosis, a low egg count and one blocked tube, so the odds are pretty stacked against us. I keep hearing about being calm, and not worrying and 'it'll happen when you stop trying ' but I tried that and all that happened was my endo has gotten progressively worse with each month as I haven't been on the pill to control it. My husband isn't very good at expressing his emotions, and he's the reason we've pushed our planned ivf back repeatedly despite being told we have a 2% chance of conceiving without it, because he didn't want to spend the money. So, my question is, how does everyone stay calm through this process? I can't really rely on my husband to support me because he doesn't really get it, but I feel like there's so much pressure on me for this to work, even though I know it's common to need multiple attempts I feel like it has to work this time or I might not get another chance but I don't really know how to balance feeling like that with staying relaxed. Any tips from people who've been through it already?