11 days post embryo transfer bfn

[surrogate1983]

I’m 11 days post embryo transfer and tested this morning and got a bfn it makes me want to stop all of my meds as I don’t see the point in taking them anymore I can’t see anything changing as my otd is weds.

[Mercury363]

It's really hard and I have been there myself. Finding that strength to keep going when you feel so negative is really difficult. Please keep on with your meds. Unfortunately this is what we sign up for and it's important to see it through to the end, if only for those few of us that get those late bfps.Stay strong, take your meds and keep us posted. We will be here for you wither way xx

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi. NO you carry on with all prescribed medication and test when clinic advises. Thimking of you. Diane

[Mikki100]

I've been there and I know the disappointment and sadness, but please keep taking your meds until otd. Best of luck x

[K_LNB]

yes, I second what the others say! I’m lucky enough to have got positives but they were a real mixed bag in terms of when those lines showed up!!!

[Christianbaby]

I’m so sorry this morning’s test didn’t bring the news you were hoping for. Holding on to the meds and sticking with the routine might feel exhausting right now, but there’s still a chance for Wednesday. Sending you so much strength. xx

[Twiglet2]

I’m so sorry it’s been a negative this time 😢 for your own peace of mind I would continue with the meds and the test on Wednesday just for closure. It is unlikely to change after day 11 (although for a small few it does) but having been there myself many times it is better to just keep going with meds than having even the tiniest of ‘what ifs’ in your head and beating yourself up. Thinking of you 💜 xx

[surrogate1983]

thank you guys I’m still taking meds but don’t think anything will change for tomorrow. It’s just so gutting as this was as a gestational surrogate for a friend the first transfer resulted in a little girl and I got a positive at 5 days post transfer. The second attempt didn’t work and this time was the last embryo and I really wanted her to have a little brother or sister. But hey ho it clearly wasn’t meant to be.