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Hope everyone is doing as well as you can be🤗Had my FET on Thursday (our 3rd) been very restful and not done alot at all.....on steroids, cyclogest and blood thinners plus had an intralipid, due to V high NK cells.

Been fairly calm but now starting to worry as Thursday was fine, no cramps, and since Friday I've had cramps and lower back pain......basically like period pain. No spotting or anything......so worried anything I've done has hindered it sticking and period is going to come this week! (Although not sure how as been just mainly resting) Due to really giving everything we have for this one.

I told myself I wasn't going to symptom chk this time as I did the last 2! But........test day isn't until 25th!

Just can't get these thoughts out my head.

Just really looking for some reassurance. Am I out or can these be positive?

Xxx

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Thierry101

this can 100% be positive! And I know it’s pretty much impossible to not symptom check. But nothing you have / havnt done will have affected the outcome negatively, you sound like you’ve done everything in your power, hang on in there xxxxx

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Flowergirlhope in reply to Thierry101

Thanks so much for your message - that's encouraging and thank you for replying 🤗I just get so worried about it ...but then I would probably be worried if I didn't have anything! Oh dear my mind plays havoc in this situation. Just seem to second guess everything.

Thanks so much, so kind xxx

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Lelo3479

Best wishes 🙏❤️💐 sounds like implantation pain x

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Flowergirlhope in reply to Lelo3479

Thanks so much Lelo3479, really hope it is🙏🙏be an absolute miracle🥹🥹Xx

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Keggles36

I had awful cramps and was so sure it was my period but we got a positive! Also I went for a "short walk" after my transfer just to get some air... And fell down the side of a ravine. The nurse on the phone reassured me there wasn't much I could do to mess it up after transfer so try not to worry you've done anything. I've got my fingers crossed for you xx

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Twiglet2

there is absolutely nothing that you can do other than bungee jumping or binge drinking that would affect the outcome of it’s gonna stick it’s gonna stick 💜🤗 good luck and test whenever you like results from day 8 should be pretty reliable xx

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Flowergirlhope in reply to Twiglet2

Thanks so much - thats really helpful! xxx I know my test day seems ages away! sure i cant wait until then

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Doodlebug23

Try to move a little and not be completely immobile. Keeps blood flowing to the uterus. Warm feet = warm uterus. Plus up your water intake as it’s last place water reaches.

No real science behind it but I’m now 27 weeks!

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Flowergirlhope in reply to Doodlebug23

Thanks so much.....yes i have been moving a bit, but they have told me to really take it easy this time. So doing all i can.....but not a complete couch potato😅

Congrats on your positive xx

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Doodlebug23 in reply to Flowergirlhope

My moving was to the kitchen for food and a wander round the garden lol!

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Flowergirlhope in reply to Doodlebug23

Yes same!😀nice to get fresh air too

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