Hi ladies,
First time I have posted but have been on the IVF merry go round for a few years now.
I am 39, had my first child at 35 through IVF (first time) and since then have been trying for 3 years for a sibling. We’ve now had 5 unsuccessful transfers (3 failed attempts, 1 chemical pregnancy, 1 early miscarriage). We are PGT-M / A patients so lose a high proportion of our embryos to testing, and the batching to generate enough embryos has been relentless.
My clinic doesn’t really know why I have had so many failed attempts with euploid, high quality embryos which apparently is statistically unlikely. I suspect some kind of secondary infertility, potentially endometriosis / adenomyosis or related to the c section from my first pregnancy but I have had trouble getting a firm diagnosis. I have been told I ‘probably’ have adenomyosis, I’ve also had a laparoscopy which showed very mild endometriosis though I have recently developed endometriomas on my ovaries.
The clinic have not (I feel) taken this very seriously as they say my treatment approach would be the same anyway; my c section niche is small (1mm) but did contain blood, they advised to leave as is as deemed not to be a factor.
I’ve had unexplained fluid in my uterine cavity a number of times though not on transfer days. Everything else normal.
anybody have any advice? Is it worth pushing further on the diagnosis front?
I am also thinking about changing clinics - I am with CRGH (I am based in London) but they charge a high flat rate for up to 10 embryos rather than on a per embryo basis which basically means I have to opt for 3+ EC batches per round of testing to make it cost effective; we have used of all our savings now (and then some) so keen to explore pay per embryo option as we can’t afford another mega batch testing cycle. If we so move to another clinic, not sure if I would need to pay again for the pgt-m mock up at another clinic (which also takes forever) or whether the clinic would just transfer it. Does anybody know? / have any recommendations?
Thanks in advance for reading and sorry for the mega post.