5th transfer - unlucky :-(

[Lamagarden]

Unfortunately, found out this morning that our 5th transfer (double FET) is a BFN I really thought/felt it was going to be a positive. Not sure if it’s the hormones or just plain hope but often have a burst of positivity and belief after transfer and think ‘this is the one!’ but alas it is not. Thought I’d be devastated but I don’t seem to be atm, probably numb and it will come later.

My partner is amazing and supportive! We’ve been through so much and it’s been tough on our relationship and at times we thought we might not make it but we are stronger than ever and that makes me feel so happy and grateful. He says, it’s ok, we’ll keep going, we’ll get there. I need his positivity this morning.

Another painful step in the road. Hopefully, one day, I’ll be able to post a birth announcement on this forum, I so hope that I get the chance. Best of luck everyone xx

[Habibi87]

Hi love, I am so sorry that it didn’t work 💔 this is a very tough journey, full of unexpected turns, and you are amazing for doing it. Sending you a big hug

[Lamagarden in reply to Habibi87]

Thank you x

[C-a-t-m-u-m]

I’m so sorry it didn’t work, I also had a BPN this morning and also feel numb! I had all the sickness and everything until today and it’s all gone plus tested twice. Official test day is tomorrow but considering all symptoms gone I’m sure it’s game over. Sending a hug as I’m in need of them today. X

[Lamagarden in reply to C-a-t-m-u-m]

I’m so sorry, it totally sucks doesn’t it. Big hugs ❤️

[OurMiracleBabies]

Sending you positive vibrations and lots of hugs.

[Lamagarden in reply to OurMiracleBabies]

Thank you x

[XOXO13]

Really sorry it didn’t work for you, it’s really rotten and such a difficult road. Sending you a big hug 🤍

[Lamagarden in reply to XOXO13]

Thank you x

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi Lamagarden. Well, it’s good to hear that your husband is being so supportive, and I hope others are too. I feel that every time we fail at any treatment cycle, hopefully a little more is understood about us. Maybe one day it will be your time, I do hope so. Diane

[Lamagarden in reply to DianeArnold]

Thank you Diane x

[butterfliez]

hi I’m so sorry for your bfn, it’s such a hard process & we try our best to feel as hopeful as we can during the treatments/waiting. It’s so tough.

It is good to hear you have such good support in your partner & that you have become closer.

Sending you strength & all the best X

[Lamagarden in reply to butterfliez]

Thank you x

[Minniemouse88]

I'm so sorry you are going through this and it's even tougher when you have the glimmer of hope, I know. Take good care and know that there are many others walking with you. Hope your time comes soon xxx

[Lamagarden in reply to Minniemouse88]

Thank you x

[Lyndsbaby]

sending lots of love ❤️ every failed attempt is so heartbreaking xxx

[Lamagarden in reply to Lyndsbaby]

Thank you x

[Twiglet2]

💜 I’m so sorry sending you a hug, lovely to hear you and your husband are there for each other though xx

[Lamagarden in reply to Twiglet2]

Thank u x

[Banana77]

Sending hugs xx

[Lamagarden in reply to Banana77]

Thank you x

[Azzurra79]

So sorry. Hoping that nevertheless your feeling of positivity is rooted in something good to happen in the future. May your dream come true ♥️

[Lamagarden in reply to Azzurra79]

I really hope so and thank you x

[Pintu88]

I’m so so sorry to hear that. It really hits hard to get a BFN after all the treatment. It’s so tough and unfair but to have a support system like you do with your husband is a blessing in itself. Sending you all my love and strength xx

[Lamagarden in reply to Pintu88]

I agree, I feel v lucky in that sense, although it’s certainly been up and down at points. Thank you x

[Hopewhite]

sending you big hugs and positive vibes your way!! very sorry about this result, this journey can be tough indeed, make sure you look after yourself, do things you love to fill back your strength, we can only keep trying and hoping our dream will come true v. soon!! xx

[Lamagarden in reply to Hopewhite]

As it happens I’m on hols this week, with family, so it’s been a great distraction. I hope all our dreams do come true xx

[Hopewhite in reply to Lamagarden]

ahh that sounds like a lovely way to take your mind off it a little bit, glad you're surrounded by your loved ones xx

[Nane22]

hi I’m so sorry for your bfn. It’s so hard looking at the dreaded line on the tests. I also just had a bfn few weeks ago on my 4th transfer. It’s a tough journey but you’re strong and have a good support system around you. You will get there lovely 🥰 keep strong and don’t loose hope sending big hug xx

[Lamagarden in reply to Nane22]

I’m sorry to hear of your bfn too, it sucks Hopefully, we’ll all get our dream come true one day xx

[Miracle43]

I’m so sorry 💔. It’s such a tough journey. I had my 3rd debfn a short while ago.

You will get there. Don’t loose hope x

[Lamagarden in reply to Miracle43]

Thank you, it’s good to be reminded not to lose hope, as sometimes it slips away. I wish u all the luck on your journey xx