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Finally on our 6th attempt *sensitive*

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Tested this morning on 12DP5DT and had a positive test. This is the first time we’ve got this far. I feel numb and didn’t react as I thought I would. All I can think of is things going wrong - is that just nuts? It’s almost like I’m afraid to be excited to protect myself. My official test day is tomorrow but tested today because of work tomorrow. I can’t quite believe it after almost 8 years of trying. Xx

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Rainbowbaby22

Congratulations . That line is very strong xx

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StarsAllAround

Hi hopeful, what your feeling is completely natural, I think everyone who has suffered loss and/or fertility issues feels the exact same when they get there BFP. I was the same when I got my BFP was soo anxious kept thinking of all the things that could go wrong. What helped me was focusing on other things I started jewellery making during my 2 ww and am still doing it now it's really fiddly and while I'm doing it I am not thinking of all the things that could go wrong, I also plan little treats for me and my husband like a days out etc. So what I'm saying is don't be hard on yourself for how your feeling its completely normal and if you can try and find things to keep your mind busy, binge watch something, start a new book, try a new hobby, try some mindfulness whatever works for you. And congratulations 🎊 on your BFP x

WHOOP! This is amazing news! And a really strong line too! Masses of congrats.

To be completely honest, that feeling of 'it's all going to go wrong' is probably here to stay for a while at least sadly. When we have been through what we have all been through it's really difficult to just be blissfully happy. But that line is lovely and strong so it's looking good and today you are PREGNANT!! Congrats!! x

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Maybe1982

Hi there, wishing you all luck in the world and fingers and toes crossed that everything goes well xxx2 weeks waiting look forever..I will have mine done on Monday...I'm nervous excited xxx

🤞🏽🤞🏽🤞🏽🤞🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

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butterfliez

This is wonderful news after trying for so long congratulations! wishing you all the best with the pregnancy. it is totally normal to feel this way after you have been through so much. infertility,ivf,loss etc takes so much from us it robs us of the excited feelings that we should have when finding out, also because you have wanted it so much for so long battling you know how precious it is and want all to just go smoothly, sometimes anxiety can over take everything else but I do hope in time you can start to relax and enjoy the happy news.

take care xx

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Nenad

aww this is so lovely to see! Wishing you all the best and a smooth journey ahead xx

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Fairytale22

congratulations! Lovely to see xx

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CharlieJ1988

congratulations hun!!! You deserve this, wish you all the very best in your pregnancy- massive congrats!!! X

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Littlepeax

Huge congratulations ❤️🥰✨️ please try and relax I know it's so hard but you really deserve to be happy and why can't this be your time?! Lovely strong lines too xxx

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Solly-44

Ahh brilliant news! It’s completely normal, me and partner were both like oh shit 🤷‍♀️ when we got our first positive, hardly the floods of happy tears and big hugs I’d imagined! It will begin to feel more real, wishing you a super happy pregnancy xx

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Corchi

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Jokiekin11

Brilliant news, congratulations! Wishing you all the best in your pregnancy x

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Haf05

Great news, many congratulations!

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SianieShorts

many congratulations to you….I can totally relate to this. Try and enjoy each milestone as it comes! It’s an incredible achievement to get further than you have before xx

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Hopeful99

Thank you all for your beautiful replies. I’m going to ring the clinic this morning to update them and get the next steps ready in my head. Xxx

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Cricket2

congratulations!

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IVFat43

congratulations! Awesome news. It will sink in! it’s natural to be anxious. Just try and enjoy right now right here if you can as It’s been 8 years in the making!! Lots of love no luck xx

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AuroraXen

Yay! So happy for you Lovely, you deserve this so much. I can imagine it doesn't feel real! Hang in there, as for many it's a rocky road now of second guessing ourselves and constantly wondering what's happening! But make sure to enjoy this amazing time xx

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