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I’m so pïssed off with myself!

Tested on a cheapie yesterday (not fmu) at 5dp5dt and got a very faint line. Spent all day in a happy little bubble, tested my fmu this morning at 6dp, hopeful to see something clearer and it’s stark white.

I know it’s still early ish but am I definitely out as I had a little line that’s gone? I should have listened to you all! Xx

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Noah1981 profile image
Noah1981

Solly this happened with someone else who I’m in contact with regularly and she’s half way through her pregnancy .It’s too early and the same thing happened with her her lines got lighter and was still successful.Please no more testing now your torturing yourself .We have all done it all guilty of it but please for your own sanity and emotions leave the test alone another week please god it will be worth it xxx

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Solly-44 in reply to Noah1981

Thanks lovely, you are always so kind 🥰 I know I need to leave alone now! Xxx

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SK73

Uh oh🙀 I agree with what Noah1981 has said. This time is so hard though, I can understand why you tested❤️ but just try and wait til OTD😘

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Solly-44 in reply to SK73

🙈 I know, I know, I shouldn’t have 😂 Hope your keeping busy plan is keeping you out of trouble! Xx

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Babyrainbow

This is too early to test. So wait till OTD and test again. I can understand why you tested. It was difficult for me as well in the 2ww (just completed it today) and my husband had to hide everything (even though i bought tests that guaranteed results 6 days earlier).

So hang in there. Sending all positive vibes.

💕🍀🤞🤗🌈❤️

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Solly-44 in reply to Babyrainbow

Thank you, I hope you got your positive! Xxx

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HollyT7

I was thinking about you last night and thought hmmmm I bet shes tested by now 😂 you aren't out lovely, a line is great even if its not there at the moment, that could be any number of factors! Now your going to be wanting to test even more aren't you to see what's going on.

FYI - this happened to me too and I'm now 22+1 🤰🏽💙

I don't believe that there's any stopping you now the flood gates are open so my only advise (if you can't resist testing) is to get first response and use a pot don't test in the stream. I wish you all the best for the next couple of days. Remember hcg takes 48 hrs to double so try leave it at least that long in between tests. Lots of love and luck ❤️❤️❤️🍀🍀🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

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Solly-44 in reply to HollyT7

😂😂 once it gets into your head there’s no going back is there?? Oh that’s so reassuring to me, I completely forgot you’d had a wobble with your early tests. Thanks lovely, hope you’re doing well & glowing! 🥰 xx

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HollyT7 in reply to Solly-44

Nope, but we can't help ourselves can we! ❤️ honestly though I know it's easier said than done, I've never waited, even with the best intentions! Whatever you choose to do in the next few days, testing or not, be super kind to yourself, watch crap on Netflix and eat some treats, whatever it takes to get through, look forward to your otd update as I have all the faith in this for you 😘 xxx

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Sunflower35

Don’t be annoyed, it’s understandable!It is very early to consider yourself out, try to relax and let your body do what it needs to do.

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Solly-44 in reply to Sunflower35

Thanks lovely xx

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Noah1981

I’ve every confidence in you and look at holly now half way there when she thought her luck was down I believed for her too xxxxx

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HollyT7 in reply to Noah1981

too true and I had such a wobble didn't I! But you told me it would all be OK and it was and look at us both now ❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Noah1981 in reply to HollyT7

Yes belief is a wonderful thing xx

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KiboXX

Mine were always negative in the morning and a faint positive in the evening when I tested early. I even had a weeks indicator go backwards with my last pregnancy from even in vs morning.

I would say don’t test for a few days but if you’re anything like me, you’ve opened Pandora’s box now so you won’t be able to stop 🙈 so… try another one this evening and see if you get a line again. Got everything crossed for you xxxx

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Star241

Don’t beat yourself up!! It’s super early and with my only successful pregnancy I didn’t get even a faint line until 7post 5 day transfer and not a strong line until 9 days, take a breath and best of luck to you x

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Sweethear

You don’t have to be pissed with yourself just try and take it easy you are not out yet. I also tested today at 6days past a day3 Embrayo transfer and it was negative I know it is early but couldn’t stop myself am just going to be testing everyday until my otd there is no going back now best of luck to us both

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FrancyItaly

Oh dear! 🤦🏻‍♀️😅 Why did you test? I think it can only be reliable with a very sensitive one like a First response, if you had a line on a cheapie then you whould definitely get a line on a First response too, otherwise it was just a ghost! Think you are not out yet as it is way too soon especially with a FET! You can do this xxxx

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Bella_Bee

Is it humanly possible to stop testing once you start? First response test with fmu tomorrow (7dp5dt right) and you'll have a better idea. But of course you need the stomach to accept that nothing is certain before OTD and for some people the blood test. You can find an example online of whatever bias you're trying to confirm. I'm hopeful about your faint line though. False positives are near impossible. Best of luck xx

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Hopecontinues

Ha ha... I knew you were going to test. I still haven't, but only because I'm so scared about the result and I need to make it to the weekend in case it's bad news. Day 8 today. I'm hoping that line comes back for you. I've read a lot about certain tests not showing for some people, while other tests do, so fingers crossed this is the case.

X

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Sweethear

Hi,how are you? Just thinking about you did you test again? I have been testing since 6dp a day3 transfer and I have been getting negative today is day 8 am losing my mind and losing hope, I hope you got a positive and me too

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Sucre1705 in reply to Sweethear

Hi,all hope is not lost it’s just day 8, Otd is not here yet. I know its difficult ,can u hold on trying for now easier said than done.Wishing u good luck ** miracles do happen.

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Sweethear in reply to Sucre1705

Thanks for your support like you said is not easy I have started testing and I can’t stop now 😂😂😂😂 I really hope it change but I don’t think so it so difficult because I know this is my last try of ivf I guess no matter what happened I know I did my best

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Sucre1705 in reply to Sweethear

Fingers crossed something can still happen sending u lots of hugs xxx

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Sweethear in reply to Sucre1705

Hello beautiful, just to update you I got negative blood test yesterday I cried my eyes and soul out because this was my last try at ivf this is the end for me I have no Embrayo left and am not planning on doing ivf again this hurts more then everything in the world but I have no choice then to let it go as I will be 43 years the June and the amount for new ivf is more then 5k the insurance doesn’t cover this. How are you ?did you get your positive? I hope you do.l Have been thinking of you and everyone that did their transfer the same time as me I hope you all got your positive

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COAGMS in reply to Sweethear

Oh no I’m so sorry to read this. Please take care of yourself sending hugs and kisses xx

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Sweethear in reply to COAGMS

Thank you. I will take care of myself I have no choice but to move on I will be fine. How are you?

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Sucre1705 in reply to Sweethear

Aww I am sorry to hear it was negative. Ivf is expensive and emotionally draining. It is still early for now, I think u need to take a deep breath and give sometime before making a decision. Though it depends on what you and your partner have decided.

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Sweethear in reply to Sucre1705

Thanks for your care and consigned

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Solly-44 in reply to Sweethear

I’m so sorry to see this, it’s so cruel. Sending big hugs xx

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Sweethear in reply to Solly-44

Thank you very much. Congratulations on your pregnancy am very happy for you. Wishing a smooth and healthy pregnancy

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Sweethear

Thank you

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Cinderella5

Oh good grief! Please don't beat yourself up lovely. I yesterday way too much...more of us do than would admit!😄🤗 I personalty think it's just a way of trying to be in control, of course we aren't!!🤪 Wishing you tonnes of luck as always!xxx

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