Tested too early and now feeling so down 😞

I’m 9dp5dt with a fresh transfer and couldn’t resist the urge to test early. I used a boots own test strip and got a negative result. I now feel that there’s absolutely no hope for my OTD on Sunday. I knew I shouldn’t have tested but in a way I feel as if I need to prepare myself for the worse. I’m really hoping it’s still too early but I see so many others with positive tests at 9 days and I haven’t had any symptoms at all.

[Faith103]

Try to go panic to much. These tests are not very good at picking up a hgc level. I would recommend waiting until test day and using a frost response test. Have you had any symptoms. I am day 8p5dt I had some cramping to begin with but it’s got pretty quiet down there recently so I’m starting to worry too.xxx

[Hidden in reply to Faith103]

Hi Faith, thanks for replying. I am trying to keep a little bit of optimism and will test again on OTD which is my day 13. I will also buy some First Response tests in the hope that these are rubbish. I can’t say I’ve had any symptoms to be honest. Felt a little like AF was arriving a couple of days ago but that has since gone. Fingers crossed for us both and everyone else out there in this 2WW.

[Faith103 in reply to Hidden]

Remember you don’t always need symptoms xxx everyone is different.

Be kind to yourself and no more testing until test day with a first response test. My test day is Friday and I’m so scared xxx

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi Hope. First of all, you don't need any symptoms yet. Just carry on with any prescribed medication and test on the day recommended by your clinic. Fingers crossed. Diane

[Millbanks]

Hi lovely, these tests are notoriously non-sensitive. In fact I used one at 8.5 weeks pregnant when I KNEW I was pregnant (after a scan) and it only just showed up a line.I also had absolutely zero symptoms.

Fingers crossed for Sunday x

[Hidden]

I agree with Millbanks, these tests are typically something like 25 hcg whereas FRERs are about 6... AND its still crazy early. You are not out by any means. But don't test again... there is nothing to be gained from it I promise! Wait until test day.. good luck!! x

[Hidden]

Thank you to everyone who has replied. This is such a good group for support. I’ve tested again this morning at 10dp5dt with a first response and it’s still a BFN. I know it’s not myOTD bit i think been realistic it’s better to accept it’s just not worked this time round. I will carry on taking cyclogest until Sunday and will test again then just because I have to but I feel better just accepting it as what it is now.

[Millbanks in reply to Hidden]

I'm sorry to hear this :(I totally agree with you on being able to accept the outcome now - it helps to process it and move forward with your next steps. Much love to you xx

[Faith103 in reply to Hidden]

I feel you. I did my fest today 9DP5DT negative. My test day is tomorrow but I’m not testing again as I know the answer. 😢

So so difficult this journey.

I know I’m out already. I’m not wasting money on a test.

Sending you lots of hugs xxx ♥️

[Hidden in reply to Faith103]

I understand exactly what you meant. It’s not my OTD until Sunday but when you know you know. It’s just annoying that I need to carry on with the pessaries until then. Onwards and upwards. Decided to concentrate today n my fitness and get in the best possible space for the next one. Look after yourself xx

[Faith103 in reply to Hidden]

That’s exactly it. You just know. I’ve stopped my meds today on my OTD. I just want a period now to feel normal again.

I am doing exactly the same as you going to sign back up at the gym. Sending lots of positive vibes your way. Onwards on upwards for us xxx you take care ♥️

[Hidden]

So sorry to read this, I was really rooting for you. Hope you get some feedback in your review and your clinic has a plan for next time xx

[MercyGrace]

I am 10DP5DT of a frozen mosaic embryo and my test with First Response is still negative, heartbroken😪🥵😭😭😭😭