So worried about viability scan tomorrow. I can't sleep 😭**sensitive update **

[Pebbles345]

Hi everyone,

It's been lovely seeing some of your good news over the last few weeks during the holidays and I really hope that everyone has some good luck this year 🤞.

Im not sure why I'm posting this as I know that there is nothing that anyone can do as I just need to get myself to the scan tomorrow! I just feel so sad about it, I'm so worried that something will be wrong and they will tell me that I was never pregnant. I have had very few symptoms (really mild nausea occasionally and my boobs hurt, a little more tired) but nothing major. I've not taken any pregnancy tests for a week as they were making me crazy worrying about the line progression all the time! Can anyone relate to this and went on to have a positive scan or is it likely that I feel this was because something is wrong? Is it normal to feel this panicked?

Thanks as always xxx

Just a quick update, the scan went really well and all measuring as he/she should. This is a huge hurdle and I value all the support everyone has shown me. Wishing you all so much luck 🤞xxx

[Peanutchips]

Hey Pebbles, I’m so sorry you’re feeling like this. I think it’s totally normal though, it’s such an anxious time. Not all women get loads of symptoms and they still go on to have healthy pregnancies. You’re much more likely to get good news tomorrow than not. Try to focus on that. Totally get you though, I’ll be a wreak as I get closer to my scan! Sending 💕 Let us know how it goes xxx

[Pebbles345 in reply to Peanutchips]

Thank you, it's reassuring just to speak to someone else that understands. How are you feeling now? Had the bleeding stopped? I really hope so as I know it can feel horrible when you see any blood. I hope you're OK x

[Peanutchips in reply to Pebbles345]

Thanks Pebbles. It’s stopped now, so I’m so relieved for now! Really hope everything goes well tomorrow. Try to think positive thoughts today as best you can xxx

[Cinderella5]

🙋🏼‍♀️Me!! I was so convinced there would be nothing on scan due to my lack of symptoms and look at me with twins.....I never did really develop much symptoms!! Its hell pebbles, just hell but you'll manage!💪🏻 All the best tomorrow, deep breaths and keep putting one foot in front of the other.xxx

[Pebbles345 in reply to Cinderella5]

Thank you! You always make me feel better. You've been through such a lot and you've got there! I just need faith and a bit of good luck xx

[Butterfly83000]

I was the same. After my miscarriage I was actually feeling really depressed before I had my scan thinking it would be bad news again. But yesterday I went and I told myself no matter what the outcome is I have to accept and try again if it's bad again. But the scan was all fine! I couldn't believe it, hearing a heartbeat for the first time. It felt so unreal but amazing. Everything will be fine. Not knowing is the worst. I wish you the best of luck 👍🍀

[Pebbles345 in reply to Butterfly83000]

So happy that you had some good news! That's really wonderful. You're right, not knowing is the worst as your mind wonders to all the worst things. Good luck going forward xx

[Lr91]

Good luck tomorrow! It is normal to feel anxious - try to distract yourself with something else (anything!) Things are a lot more likely to go well than not! I am 10Weeks now and had little to no symptoms so far - just sore breast and minimal morning sickness. I just went off some

foods like eggs and certain meats. It is absolutely not an indication of the pregnancy going well or not - it just means your body is tolerating the hormonal changes very well.

Let us know how tomorrow goes! Everything will be fine!!

[CLDxxx]

Thinking of you Pebbles. I know exactly how you’re feeling right now. The thing with symptoms also is that you do start to get used to them so they don’t always seem as strong as they maybe did originally.

I was so nuts with symptom checking I would constantly lie on my front through the day to check my boobs were as sore as the day before 🤦🏻‍♀️thankfully I was working from home at the time 🤣

Wishing you lots of luck 💞xxx

[Pebbles345 in reply to CLDxxx]

Thank you! So glad everthing is working out for you. It's so hard isn't it. I really don't know itf I feel any symptoms at all, I keep pressing my boobs all the time like a mad woman! They do feel sensitive but then I wonder if this is because I keep poking them all the time 😂.I know some women don't feel any symptoms at all, I just think when you go through IVF you want to feel something.

Good luck with next steps xxx

[CLDxxx in reply to Pebbles345]

😂 I get you!

Popped on to see your update and so happy to see all is going well!

Now to get referred for a midwife 🥰 sending you lots of love and luck xxx

[Bunnys123]

Sending lots of love for your scan. I feel exactly the same worry for mine on Weds 😥 I am in a positive mind set and feel like it’s going to be fine but it’s just so nerve wracking! Xoxo

[Hidden]

I self referred at 6w as natural pregnancy but I’d had 3mmc Prev 2 were blighted so that first scan was terrifying for me on my own too. I have my anomaly scan tomorrow at 19w I still have anxiety today leading up to it even tho I’ve had 4 other scans already and everything had been good. Good luck for tomorrow x

[Linda84Co]

Hi, sorry you are so worried, I completely understand you, when we went for my visibility scan 4 weeks a go, I was ready for the doctor to tell me there is no heartbeat, the bed was shaking with me, but thank god we heard the heartbeat, it’s such a stressful time, I’m praying for you 😘😘

[minnesota_girl]

I am constantly amazed by the relentless grace that everyone on this portal needs to sustain. I wish you enough to get through the next day - and fingers crossed for positive news.

[Cinderella5]

Awww thank goodness! I've been looking for a post from you all morning and hadnt noticed youd updated this one! So pleased for you lovely!!👏🏻🙌🏻🤗🥰xxx

[Pebbles345 in reply to Cinderella5]

Thank you! I'm still in happy shock! ❤️

[Cinderella5 in reply to Pebbles345]

Best kind of shock to be in!!💕xx

[minnesota_girl in reply to Cinderella5]

I was too!!! So glad Pebbles!

[Peanutchips]

Soooo happy to see this Pebbles!! Fab news 😁🌟

[Italy300618]

Fantastic!! Wonderful news😘😍

[ToughCOOKIE78]

Oh Pebbles I’m so happy for you! Congrats 🥳🤞🏻✨❤️

[RhinoCat]

Fab update 🥰💐

[Zucci]

Great news Pebbles! I’m really pleased for you! Xx🧡