9 days post 3day embryo transfer BFN😔

[GLASTONBERRY]

Hi guys so i gave in and tested @8dp3dt and got a BFN then i tested again day later same results. I feel like AF is coming as i feeling " wet " down there but nothing yet. My cramps have subsided only have dull back ache and slight mild headsches. Oh i may add im on the crinone 8% gel and when i wiped i saw it look likw it has specks of light pink. I am panicking i feel like AF is on the way and my beta test is on Tuesday .. i see ladies get their BFP by day 8dp3dt ... im sick with worry. Anyone with similar stories

[KiboXX]

Hi Glastonberry,

Crinone is a bastard for causing irritation and a little bit of spotting so try not to worry about that. If it gets any heavier, then contact your clinic but what you’ve described is super normal.

9dp3dt is still really early, it’s the equivalent of 7dp5dt and lots of people don’t get their BFP until later. Hang in there. xxx

[GLASTONBERRY in reply to KiboXX]

Thank you so much❣❤ i feel a whole lot better.

[Hope76]

Hi it’s still really early, I know it’s hard but try not test again until OTD as you are just gonna be more anxious.

Having tested early once myself well I put myself through unnecessary worry it’s just not worth it.

My OTD is 23/08 and am desperate to know, feel like all I want to do is shut myself off from the world until then. Back in bed feeling really bad as snapped at partner... but maybe good sign 🤞🏼.

Good luck for you OTD 🤞🏼🍀🙏🏻

[GLASTONBERRY in reply to Hope76]

Thank you for replying i trully appreciate it.Lets all hang in there.. Good luck with your OTD too. Love and Lots of baby dust

[Rubidge]

Hey, I also tested at 8 and 9dp although mine was a 5dt and got a negative and in all honesty it is the worst thing to do, I know you’ve already done it now but literally it causes so much more stress 🙄 I’m now not testing again until my OTD I can’t say I have a lot of hope though. I did speak with my clinic (all have different procedures) but mine said it was still very early, and it was a good sign I had no bleeding so that has given me some reassurance. I can’t comment on the gel as I’ve not had to use that, but hide them tests and leave it till OTD there’s always hope 🤞🏻 Xx

[GLASTONBERRY]

Thank you so much for replying uour responce has really put things into perspective. All the best sending you baby dust as well😇