*Sensitive* *Birth Announcement*

[mushy19]

Hi Everyone...

*long post alert* it’s been a whirlwind 12 days.

I just wanted to let you know our IVF (ICSI) journey is now officially over and our dreams have finally come true... we now have a beautiful healthy baby boy.

At 32weeks pregnant following a routine growth scan I was told my low lying placenta had only moved 3mm since my 20week scan...and now called placenta previa. They was also worried about baby’s estimated weight which also seemed to have slowed down. I was asked to return in two weeks and prepare myself for a csection if there was no changes.

@34+5 I returned for another scan... sadly there was no changes. Placenta had stopped functioning and baby’s growth had completely stagnated. I was admitted to hospital and received steroid treatment for 48hrs to help mature baby’s lungs and he was delivered the following morning at exactly 35weeks via csection.

This was such a scary experience at the time as doctors prepare you mentally for all the worst case scenarios or possible health complications with a pre term baby as well as me developing gestational diabetes and passing this onto baby during this pregnancy.

However the most worrisome thing was being admitted to hospital during the midsts of a global pandemic. Everything about my hospital stay just scared the life out of me... I cried and prayed we would both make it out of there alive and covid free.

Being in hospital for 48hrs before and after delivery my partner daughter or family could not visit.

There were actually women giving birth alone as dads was being turned away... some dads were made to wait/sleep in car parks until there partner was in final stages of labour and only being allowed in once active pushing started.

As my csection was planned and high risk we was lucky enough to have a time for my partner to attend. He was allowed into delivery suite just as I was being taken to surgery.

All went well... baby weighed 4lb 7oz

There was no excessive bleeding like doctor thought could happen with placenta previa... and no issues with baby’s lungs or breathing.

My partner could only spent two hours with me and baby in recovery and then they were both taken from me in seconds 💔my Partner had to leave at the same time my baby’s sugars dropped dangerously low so he was taken to the special care baby unit. 😭😭😭

I slept for 4hours before having to be at his bedside in the SCBU and every 3hours after that for every feed for the two days he was in there. I must say.... the staff was truly amazing💙not only are they health professionals they have to also step in emotionally where family and friends would normally be. I was a complete mess the first day 😫

Fast forward.... we was released on day 4 post delivery and finally reunited with Daddy and Big sister and now safe and sound at home.

I am elated and so grateful for this blessing I have received... I have been so emotional remembering the journey... the years it’s taken to get here... although super tired 💤 I didn’t sleep a wink whilst in hospital so making up for it now.

Before I say goodbye.... I would like to thank you all again from the bottom of my heart for the support, time. and effort shown towards me within this forum. You will always be apart of this surreal journey and I will never forget your contribution towards this happy ending. Your a beautiful bunch of selfless people even whilst undergoing your own infertility journeys.

I wish you all the best and lots of love for the future 💙💙💙

[Cinderella5]

Wow mushy, what a rollercoaster for sure! Glad it all worked out in the end and you have your beautiful baby in your arms safe and sound. Love the pic of his little crinkly foot! All the best to you!!xxx

[mushy19]

Awe Thankyou Cinderella

It really has been a rollercoaster... but definitely worth it.

You’ve been so supportive towards me throughout this, and I can’t Thankyou enough for your words of encouragement.

I hope and pray you get your happy ever after with your next cycle. I will be popping in to check x

[Cinderella5 in reply to mushy19]

Ahhhh you're absolutely welcome, that's what we are all here fo after all....one big family! I certainly hope to give you some nice news at some point once we eventually get going!! Thank you for your kind words too, you've always been rooting for me!!xx

[Solly-44]

Oh this bought a lump to my throat!

Huge congratulations love, what a journey. Glad you and bubs are home and doing well x

[mushy19 in reply to Solly-44]

Awe ur just as emosh as me..😊Thankyou so much... x

[Hidden]

Oh my god what a hard journey you had! Massive massive congratulations on your happy ending mommy ❤️

[mushy19 in reply to Hidden]

Thankyou 😘

[Hidden]

Huge congratulations on the safe arrival of your little boy 💙 sorry to hear it was traumatic hope you can get some counselling to process everything. So happy for you & your family now it’s complete ❤️ Thanks for posting it really gives others hope xxx

[mushy19 in reply to Hidden]

Thankyou Jess...

That’s why I had to pop back to let others know there is a little light at the end of a dark tunnel. This time last year we was starting our first cycle and here I am holding my baby from my second cycle. Xxx

[Stephybivf]

Awh mushy I’ve been keeping my eye out to see if your little boy had arrived!

What a scary experience, you must have been frightened to death. I’m sooo happy for you and your now home safe ❤️ Congratulations to you all you must be absolutely thrilled xxx

[mushy19 in reply to Stephybivf]

Awe bless you.... Thankyou for looking out for us and all your words of encouragement.

I’m so happy I want to scream from the rooftops everytime I look at him in disbelief while remembering the journey. I’m just going to take time and just enjoy every moment 😊

[Stephybivf in reply to mushy19]

I know what you mean! I still cant believe I’m a mummy after many years.

You’ve been through such a lot to get your little man. Awh enjoy every minute of your precious boy 😘😘😘

[Picalilli99]

Wow sounds like you’ve had a really difficult time! Glad you and your little one are now finally home safe together. Huge congratulations xxx

[MissSaoPaulo]

So glad to hear you're both safe and sound now and hope you're recovering well. Congratulations to the new family xxx

[Tiger321]

Congratulations Mushy glad all is well x

[Rainbowhope]

Congratulations on the birth of your son. Sounds like you went through a difficult labour but thank God you and baby are fine. Wishing you every success in motherhood. X

[Livinginhope2019]

Huge congratulations on your wonderful news xxx

[Shelleybean]

Wow that’s sounds scary, but so glad you’re both safe and sound. Thanks for sharing your story. Really pleased to hear about your little miracle and that you have your happy ending. Take care and enjoy your little family 💕 xx

[mary77777]

Congratulations, lots of love and health to you and your family!

[Akferrell]

Congratulations

[Kitcat12]

Huge congratulations and well done to you for being so strong through a traumatic time x

[WinnieM]

Wow what a birth story, I’m sorry you had to go through that but so happy to hear everything’s ok!! Congratulations!!!!🎉🎈

[FertileMind]

So lovely to hear your wonderful news! Enjoy every second of your little miracle. xx

[Abbyoj]

Congratulations, against all odd, you made it out with your little boy. Miracle does exist

[Core]

Congratulations! Sounds like you’ve had a rough ride but so glad you are now home with your little one xx

[aussiechris]

I know this was 4 months ago now but I could have written your post mushy19!!! I'm also experiencing:

ICSI (our one and only/last chance/finally successful baby boy!!)

Gestational diabetes

Placenta Praevia

Booked for c-section at 37 weeks (currently 36) have amazingly made it this far despite every care provider being sure I wouldn't!

Currently looking like the UK is going into a second lockdown (but the rules are currently similar with 2hr visit etc)!

Unfortunately I have PTSD and I am dreading any time alone in the hospital.

Thank you for sharing your story xxx

[Debrakay1704]

Big congratulations xxxx

[Melly911]

I want to thank you for all of these updates. I found you in a search about spotting and ended up getting lost in your story. Thank you for being brave enough to post. XO

[FrancyItaly]

Oh wow! What a scary experience but hey you are a mummy now! Enjoy every single moment! x