FET bfn-no more embryos

[MrsBlu]

So 2nd BFN for me today from fet. Failed fresh last year. Last time it was put down to bad luck and this time everything was as perfect as it could possibly be. Wondering if this will ever happen and where to go from here. Can only just about afford one more fresh round. I'm 33 with no known issues and our infertility is due to dh having anti sperm antibodies. I'm scared there is some undiagnosed issue and just doing another round will be a waste as there seems to be obvious reason why this is not working. Any advice?

[Leesara]

Such a tough one MrsBlu, do feel for you. It’s always hard to know whether to go again or not but I know that when it’s time to stop, you truly just know. So if u haven’t got that feeling, I believe you still have hope left in you. Sending lots of hope and positivity your way xx

[ttcemmie]

Hi MrsBlu. Sorry to hear about this result my love. It isn't anything you've done wrong and it's all down to luck and chance sadly. Don't feel like you need to make any decisions right now in this painful time, but when it isn't all so raw, put in a review appointment with your clinic to talk to them about what is the best way forward.

[Chowlady14]

Hi MrsBlu, sorry to hear you got a bfn. I’m day 10 after fet and also bfn so certain I’m out. I have high thyroid antibodies & despite being on thyroid meds I feel this is the reason it failed but my clinic won’t take me seriously. As a result considering moving clinics (have 8 Frosties not even sure if I can take them with me) but feel so strong about it now that would be prepared to try a fresh cycle with another clinic if they are willing to address my antibody issues... maybe you could contact a different clinic too and explain your sperm antibody concerns xxxx