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It's been a while since I posted and iIve hardly even been on this forum. Felt like I just needed a little break from everything.

My brother and his gf announced a pregnancy on Christmas Eve. That hit me really hard! There's been no joke about 10 pregnancy announcements in my life since then. And as we draw closer to what would have been my due date I do struggle.

BUT almost time to go again. Had a hysteroscopy which was all clear so consent appt on the 27th Feb and then were ready to start another FET.

Fingers crossed this is the one ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿคž๐Ÿคž

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I understand that feeling but we just have to be strong and keep pushing.. sending you positive vibes ๐Ÿ’ž

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Thank you so much xo

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JoP32

Good luck on your upcoming round! Xx

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aamiller405 in reply to JoP32

Thank you very much xo

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RhinoCat

I love a BUT..... in a story . Itโ€™s the โ€˜action button!โ€™. Means something is about to happen or change and can be exciting and scary all at the same time ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’. So thankful for the โ€˜butโ€™s that keep the journey going when we reach a fork in the ivf road ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ’

Tough old road ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ’–. I just say into myself when I see the 452nd pregnant lady in a day โ€˜oh who cares!โ€™ ..... then I laugh at my rudeness ๐Ÿคฃ which makes me feel naughty and triumphant in equal measure! ๐Ÿ˜ฌ๐Ÿ˜ฌ๐Ÿ˜ฌ๐Ÿ˜ฌ .... makes me not dwell on it and Iโ€™m away on to something else less soul destroying . ๐Ÿ˜˜ ( I once said it out loud and it made me laugh so hard I nearly choked! Relieved my annoyance immediately ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚)

Not long now until end of Feb . Hope you can get yourself into a comfortable brain space ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’

Sending you hugs of support as I know how the emotions build as we hit these appointments ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ’–

Youโ€™ve got this ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿป๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป๐Ÿคฉ

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aamiller405 in reply to RhinoCat

This was such a beautiful message! Thank you so much for your kind kind words.. They mean so much xo

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Iโ€™ll be waiting for an update on your first โ€˜oh who caresโ€™ usage ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–

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aamiller405 in reply to RhinoCat

Will def keep you posted ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ x

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SparkleCock

Oh honey. More then ten is just cruel! Life seems like itโ€™s laughing at us sometimes eh? Sending you all the love for your Frostie magic. Look forward to hearing all your beautiful news xxx

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aamiller405 in reply to SparkleCock

Thank you so much. Hope things are well with you xo

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Picalilli99

Welcome back. Good on you for having a break. I think itโ€™s really important to sometimes. I have done the same at various points over our journey and it has definitely done me good. Sorry about the pregnancy announcements. I find they are always tough but somehow more cruel when they come in major waves which can really knock you. So glad that you got the all clear at your hysteroscopy and that you can start looking forward again and preparing for your FET. Wishing you the best of luck for your next transfer lovely!! ๐Ÿ€๐Ÿ€๐Ÿ€ xxx

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aamiller405 in reply to Picalilli99

Thank you so much.. Hope you're keeping well xo

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ttcemmie

Ugh pregnant family members. Awesome. And announcing their pregnancy on Christmas Eve. Even more awesome. :P :) No, really, happy for your brother and his girlfriend! :) :) :) That's lovely news for them.

Best wishes for you for this round! Hoping this is the one. While I love all you sisters on here; I am forever hoping everyone gets their BFPs so we don't have to be on this site together! :) xxxxxxx

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aamiller405 in reply to ttcemmie

Yip you can imagine Christmas was a very happy occasion thia year ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™ˆ

Thank you very much and best of luck on your journey xox

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FrancyItaly

Awww I understand that feeling, it must be very hard for you when you would like to be happy for others but you are in pain yourself! I wish you all the best on your FET!

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aamiller405 in reply to FrancyItaly

Thank you and best of luck to you wherever you are on your journey xo

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everhopeful83

Wishing you so much luck for your next cycle โค๏ธโค๏ธ

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aamiller405 in reply to everhopeful83

Thank you.. Hope you're keeping well x

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Leesara

Sending you both hope and positivity x

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aamiller405 in reply to Leesara

Thank you xox

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