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Ok, I am trying to stay calm but I need your advice...

We had a failed round of IVF in December, at the debrief last week we were told my egg quality was poor!

My period is 5 days late this month which I read was normal after a failed IVF cycle, did a test and left it as was sure it would be negative as normal... but came back and it was POSITIVE... prompt a dash to the shop for two more which are also positive!

Could this actually be true?! I’m in such disbelief I don’t know what to think?!

I phoned the clinic who advised I need to go to GP, got an appointment booked for tomorrow.

I really can’t believe it, after nearly three years this is the first time I have seen a positive.

I hope this post doesn’t upset anyone. If this is all true, I was always the one who read posts like this thinking it will never be me... but maybe it could be... and it could happen to you to 🤞 🙏🏻

Love to all xxx

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Italy300618

Oh my gosh!!! What a wonderful surprise! Congratulations 😘 xx

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Hopeful_wishes in reply toItaly300618

I can’t believe only yesterday we were talking about new clinics! I don’t know what to do about the open evening tomorrow now! My head is all fuzzled! Lol xx

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Italy300618 in reply toHopeful_wishes

I know!! I would put that open evening straight out of your mind now 😁👍 xx

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Cinderella5

Ahhh this is brilliant news! Congratulations!xx

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Hopeful_wishes in reply toCinderella5

Thank you xx

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goodvibesonly

Oh wow this is so exciting!! I’m keeping my fingers crossed for you 🤞🤞

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Hopeful_wishes in reply togoodvibesonly

Thank you! GP has confirmed it this afternoon, just got to hope we get through the next few months with no problems 🤞 xx

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ttcemmie

Congrats! :D

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Hopeful_wishes in reply tottcemmie

Thank you xx

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Kiedy84

Absolutely possible and what a start to a new year!! Congratulations my dear xx

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Hopeful_wishes in reply toKiedy84

Thank you! I can’t believe it! Xx

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Lavender96

Ahh this is amazing!! Massive congratulations!! xx

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Hopeful_wishes in reply toLavender96

Thank you xx

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FrancyItaly

Congratulations and I hope it all goes well for you! 💕

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Hopeful_wishes in reply toFrancyItaly

Thank you xx

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cggregory

This gives me hope! Keeping fingers crossed for you ❤️

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Hopeful_wishes in reply tocggregory

Thank you, I can’t believe I’m in this position - miracles can happen xx

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DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Hi Hopeful_wishes, Looking good to me. Fingers crossed all goes well for you. Diane

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Hopeful_wishes in reply toDianeArnold

Thank you! GP has confirmed, I’m nervous and excited all at the same time! Xx

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Gem2410

Aww wow! Amazing.. Congratulations 😊 xx

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Hopeful_wishes in reply toGem2410

Thank you xx

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Baypony

Eeeeeek 😁 Amazing news. It’s the news we all wish for. Wishing you a happy healthy pregnancy xx

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Hopeful_wishes in reply toBaypony

Thank you, I can’t believe I have got so lucky xx

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Kitcat12

How amazing! Congratulations x

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Hopeful_wishes in reply toKitcat12

Thank you xx

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Klndmr

Wooowww the best surprise ever! Congratulations hun and wishing you happy and healthy nine months!! Personally I’m always happy to see happy endings/beginnings 💕💕💕💕💕🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🤩🤩🤩🤩xxxx

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Faith103 in reply toKlndmr

We need more people like you klndmr xxxx

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Klndmr in reply toFaith103

Aww thank you! Seriously I love seeing happy endings/beginnings. We are all in the same boat and we fight the same battle! And we all should feel happy for each battle won no matter who is it! Some battles take longer others are shorter the main thing is to be kind to ourselves, keep the positive mindset and just carry on whatever it takes!

Btw congratulations on your good results, the semen analysis and everything sounds great! So best of luck and never ever lose hope and keep a big smile on your face because the best is just yet to come! 🤞🤞🤞💕💕💕😍😍😍😍😍 Xxxx

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Faith103 in reply toKlndmr

Your mindset is my mindset. We are all in this together so we have to stick together. Thanks 🙏 hopefully I can start the process with not as much fear as I had yesterday. 😃 good luck with your journey xxxx hopefully we get our miracles soon ❤️

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Klndmr in reply toFaith103

Is this going to be your first round?

I have my second frozen transfer next week on Wednesday. I’m really hoping my last frozen embryo will be the one! 🥰🥰🥰💕💕💕💕xxx

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Faith103 in reply toKlndmr

Second round but it’s been 5 years since my last attempt. Awwww exciting how are you feeling about this one xxxx

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Klndmr in reply toFaith103

Way too relaxed hahaha but I was like that last year as well. I did 2 fresh rounds, one frozen and I’m doing another frozen. With the 1st round I was a bit stressed but not anymore 😸 xx

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Hopeful_wishes in reply toKlndmr

Thank you, I hope it gives others hope. I never thought I would get so lucky xx

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Klndmr in reply toHopeful_wishes

All positive stories give me even more hope! I’ve been always one of those desperately positive people no matter what. I also have my dark days but luckily they don’t last long 😂

Whatever is meant to happen comes sooner or later. Now is your time and just relax and enjoy what is to come! Wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy 🥰🥰🥰💕💕💕💕xxxx

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Hopeful_wishes in reply toKlndmr

It’s early days but I so hope this is our time. However, I will never forget the journey to get here and this forum has kept me going at the hardest of times. I will always be proud to be part of such an inspiring group of women xx

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Klndmr in reply toHopeful_wishes

💕💕💕💕

God, miracles do happen. Congratulations to you.

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They do! I’m still in shock! Lol xx

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Faith103

This is lovely ❤️ massive congratulations 🥳 enjoy every min xxxx

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Hopeful_wishes in reply toFaith103

Thank you, I’m currently scared it’s all going to go wrong but I want to be excited to! Xx

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Faith103 in reply toHopeful_wishes

Keep positive 😃 xxxx try and enjoy it don’t stress to much

This is such lovely news so happy for you huge congratulations. Such good strong tests too. Hope the pregnancy goes smoothly xxx

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Thank you xx

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KiboXX

Wow amazing news!! Congrats!x

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Hopeful_wishes in reply toKiboXX

Thank you xx

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Suzy86

This is such amazing news! Congratulations!!

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Hopeful_wishes in reply toSuzy86

Thank you xx

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Lots8788

How exciting!! Looks positive to me! Congrats 🤗 xx

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Hopeful_wishes in reply toLots8788

Thank you, I think I’m still in shock! Xx

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Solly-44

Ooh what a lovely surprise! Congratulations x

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Hopeful_wishes in reply toSolly-44

Thank you xx

How lovely and exciting! Congratulations! Xxx

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Thank you xx

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Core

Congratulations amazing news xx

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Thank you xx

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Skippy1982

Amazing congratulations 🥳 xxx

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Hopeful_wishes in reply toSkippy1982

Thank you xx

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Shirazlover2013

Wow congratulations!! The best surprise ever after a failed cycle.

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Hopeful_wishes in reply toShirazlover2013

Thank you! I can’t believe it, not sure it’s sunk in yet! lol the rollercoaster continues! Xx

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Tiddly1984

Love reading stuff like this!!!! Congratulations. Seems to be very true...x

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Hopeful_wishes in reply toTiddly1984

Thank you xx

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Sandyels

That Looks very positive to me! Congrats! 😁

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Hopeful_wishes in reply toSandyels

Thank you xx

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ashalez

Wow congratulations!! Good luck

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Hopeful_wishes in reply toashalez

Thank you xx

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Shelleybean

Aww wow, what a wonderful surprise! Huge congratulations, you must be over the moon 😁🌟 Hope you have a happy and healthy pregnancy xx

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Hopeful_wishes in reply toShelleybean

Thank you! I’m shocked, scared and excited all at the same time! Lol xx

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Hope4another

How wonderful! Congratulations x

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Hopeful_wishes in reply toHope4another

Thank you xx

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HelenJudi1

Amazing! Congratulations x

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Hopeful_wishes in reply toHelenJudi1

Thank you xx

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JoP32

Omg! Congratulations!!!

I’ve read that up to 25% of couples that were unable to conceive end up getting pregnant naturally after ivf. Maybe something to do with the drugs ‘waking things up’ or something?! Dunno. Anyway, I’ve always wondered who those lucky people were?! Looks like you’re one of them! 😁Huge congratulations to you and wishing you a very happy, healthy & successful pregnancy xx

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Hopeful_wishes in reply toJoP32

Thank you! The GP has said the drugs can kick start your body, I also took some new supplements this month - who knows what it was but I am so so grateful to be one of the lucky ones. Miracles can happen! Hopefully it will start to sink in soon lol xx

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JoP32 in reply toHopeful_wishes

Oooh, can I ask which supplements?

I’m sure it will sink in soon, if not I’m sure when you see that heartbeat at the seven week scan (if you opt to go for an early one) it will!!

I’ll keep everything crossed for you. Please do keep us posted! Xx

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Hopeful_wishes in reply toJoP32

We will definitely be going for an early scan, I need piece of mind! 😊 thank you x

I took vitamin c, omega 3 and a fertility supplement - will PM you which one (not sure if I can name a brand on here?) wasn’t the cheapest, but for me, appears to have worked 👍 xx

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ChloeL934

Congratulations xx

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Hopeful_wishes in reply toChloeL934

Thank you xx

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kitscat

Wow! This is amazing! Huge congratulations to you and enjoy every minute! 🥰😊😁

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Hopeful_wishes in reply tokitscat

Thank you! Xx

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Clover5

What an amazing surprise 😊! They all look like strong positives though hun. Wishing you all the very best for your pregnancy 🙏💕xX

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Hopeful_wishes in reply toClover5

Thank you! I still can’t believe it! Just hope it all goes ok xx

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Amy1122

Congratulations ❤️ wishing you all the best xxxxx

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Thank you xx

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3005

Congratulations! Mental isn’t it. Same thing happened to me

4 years trying and 3rd failed round in November and after being 5 days late over Christmas with no symptoms I took a test and couldn’t believe my eyes.

Seems to take forever to get an appointment tho I’m going insane waiting to see what’s happening in there.

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Hopeful_wishes in reply to3005

Congratulations to you too! I’m still in shock! Lol are you going to have an early scan? Xx

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3005 in reply toHopeful_wishes

I’ve asked but the dr said it’s not likely unless you have a history of problems but I would like one. I think I may have to tell them about my treatment and how anxious I am and hopefully I’ll be offered one 🤞🏻

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Hopeful_wishes in reply to3005

The GP was going to speak to the early pregnancy team this morning to enquire whether we could have one on the NHS given that we have just had a failed round of IVF. However, if not, I think we shall pay for one privately - I’m not sure I can wait until week 12! Xx

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3005 in reply toHopeful_wishes

I wish they would given I just had a fail in November but my dr didn’t seem very optimistic

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