Firstly, I'm so sorry if you don't need to see this today - please skip by.
Secondly, after 4 failed FETs and 1 failed fresh transfer, yesterday I had the call from my nurse to say that this transfer has worked. I'm actually pregnant. I have a BFP!! I didn't test at home because after the trauma of so many negative tests, I just couldn't bring myself to, so I waited for the call - it was a long day. There were a lot of tears.
I'm so grateful to you all who have got me through the past 2 years of IVF (and 3 years TTC before that). The heartache we go through with every single step of this is enough to break most people, but we carry on because ultimately we know what we want and we'll do anything to get it.
It's incredibly early days and I'm 100% aware that this could be taken away at any moment, but for now I'm enjoying the feeling of knowing that our perseverance paid off!
Wishing you all a wonderful, sunny Friday! xxxx
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Fantastic news!! 🎉 I am so pleased for you Millbanks, you deserve this so much and you should enjoy every moment. Massive congratulations to you! 😊
Could you remind me what changes you made this time please lovely and did you do anything different during the 2ww wait or changes to diet, supplements etc anything like that this time? Xx
Thank you - that's so kind!Yes!! So we ended up doing another cycle then testing all the embryos, we were incredibly lucky to have 6 of the 8 come back normal. I also had all my immunology panel done and it did show raised NK cells in the blood. I had an ERA test done in December too which showed I needed 24 extra hours of progesterone. So I think all of those combined were the key. I think sometimes it's worth taking the time to investigate before using anymore precious embryos. Where are you at right now? xx
We are waiting for our follow up appointment on Tuesday, so getting my list together! Trying to think of all the things I should be asking and trying to get every tip I possibly can! It has been such a long, anxious wait since our failed 3rd transfer in June. But I am looking forward to the prospect of getting a new plan in place. I keep thinking do I need to change diet or add more supplements, maybe I am overthinking it all, I have a tendency to overthink at the best of times!
You must be over the moon. It is lovely to see you get your positive result. It gives us all hope, thank you for sharing your happy news and best of luck for a healthy pregnancy 😊 xx
Any time my lovely - my inbox is always open too.In terms of supplements I actually cut back this time. I just felt like I was taking so many and not really sure if they were doing anything!!
What I did take was:
methylfolate 400iu (1 a day) / terra nova pregnancy multi vitamin (1 a day) / vitamin D spray 3000iu (1 a day).
Then everything else that the clinic prescribed (cyclogest x 3 / lubion x 2 / inhixa x 1 / prednisolone x 20mg / progynova x 12mg / aspirin 75mg)
So I was rattling pretty much!
One thing I did have every day was a smoothie of watermelon, ginger and beetroot - there was a study to show that it helped with implantation (google it) but I would be amazed if this had any affect - much more likely the ERA / PGS / Steroids!! But because it's been so hot it was lovely as I froze all the ingredients xx
Thank you lovely! 😊 I will definitely message for advice if you don't mind, will see what the doctor says Tuesday! Will be interesting to see if she changes my meds, the last 2 rounds she kept the same down reg and stims. I hope I can have some tweaks next time to feel like we are doing something differently and of course perhaps some more investigative tests as well. I find it all very confusing and Google is a minefield of information! Will definitely be looking at that smoothie, it sounds delicious! Xx
Thank you! Yes I said to myself absolutely no more transfers until we’ve looked in to as much as we can. It’s just too heartbreaking to keep ploughing through… hope all is well with you! Xx
I was doing some research while waiting for my results and I came across this - cochrane.org/CD013226/MENST... sure if it might be something you could look in to, but it was my next step xxx
Congrats! This has made my day and you so deserve this! You have always been so supportive to others on here even though you have not had it easy. I wish you all the best with your pregnancy lovely and enjoy this day as it’s a very special moment xxx
Absolutely and I am so glad this one stuck or did you have more than one transferred?Yes me and bubs are doing well. Nearly 28 weeks now so time is flying! Xx
Oh Millbanks, I can’t tell you how happy I am for you! I have been impatiently waiting for an update and weirdly had a really good feeling about it this time 😜 Brilliant start to a Friday. Now you just have to try and relax over the next few weeks xxx
Oh you're so kind - that's made my day! ❤️ I literally had no clue so absolutely over the moon.Yes I will definitely try and take it easy - pleased that it's cooling down a bit so hopefully I can get some sleep!
How is everything progressing with you? All looking good xxx
We’re all good thank you-had a scan a few days ago at 10+6 as I got a private NIPT and it was amazing seeing the difference from 8 weeks, plus bean was raving away. I can’t say I’m enjoying the nausea in this heat but just trying to suck it up, and hubby had been a legend bringing me ginger beer and cold cloths 😂 Agree it’s time for some cooler weather! Xxx
Hi Millbanks, I’m so happy for you. Congratulations 🌟 you totally deserve this and I hope everything goes smoothly for you. Enjoy every moment of it. xx
Thank you my lovely, I hope you're doing as well as can be. I'm so sorry for your loss. This baby game can be incredible and heartbreaking all the way through. xx
Whaaaaa 😭 I’m so happy for you! Congratulations Millbanks! This is just wonderful to read. So glad I logged in. Enjoy every single minute and don’t worry about a thing right now. Xx
I bet! Make sure you don’t ever forget this feeling and the hope it brings.I’m really well thanks for asking, after my early days drama things mercifully settled and I’m now a little over 27wks and starting to get more and more excited 😊
Hope things keep progressing well for you lovely. xxx
I am trying to lock it away in my memory!! Today I feel like even if it all goes wrong, it was amazing to be here - and to know that it can work - what a boost.Oh yay!! I'm so pleased for you. The anxiety is real isn't it - but am glad you are able to enjoy it now and get excited. You absolutely deserve it. xx
Exactly the right attitude to have - this is a huge win, mentally too. The anxiety is VERY real in the first few weeks (especially if things are bumpy) but it does get easier until one day you forget you were ever worried. Take it one day at a time is my advice - and PM if you ever want to just chat x
Yes even yesterday my husband was like "are you sure - 100%?? - are you sure?? Are they definitely our results..." ARGH!! But it's slowly sinking in. Might go to the pharmacy to get a test as I've literally never seen those pink lines - but even though I know it's positive I'm still terrified!! What this journey does to us hey!One day at a time is very good advice - thank you. And thank you, I will definitely be messaging you!! xx
This is such fabulous news Mill! I’m so happy for you! You’re always so kind in supporting others and sharing your experiences and I’m so glad that it’s your turn for happiness now. Sending all my love and strength for a positive journey for you here on out until you meet your little one x
Aww thank you - that's so kind of you. I'm over the moon and literally can't believe it. How are you getting on? Have you been able to start properly now? xx
I’m sure you must be in such disbelief! But believe it - and enjoy every second! I’m on progynova now, lining scan on Tuesday. Like you, this cycle I did PG testing and following my ERA protocol of needing an extra 24 hours - hopefully the combo of the two makes all the difference. If not I think I’ll look into immunology testing.
We're doing okay. Husband has been on supplements and a strict lifestyle regimen for what seems an interminably long time (8 months) to try to improve DNA fragmentation. He took a follow-up test last week so now we're just waiting to find out the results. I'm hopeful that we've managed to improve things somewhat... So just in waiting mode at the mo! xx
We’d been waiting for a while since choosing our donor and had heard nothing but finally spoke to the nurse this morning who said we are good to go on our donors next cycle in Aug. Meds delivered on mon. So it has all suddenly got real! Very excited! xxx
Thank you doll! Already it’s been positively a completely different experience! I’m keeping everything crossed for you and I hope time flys by for that scan x
Haha in my experience it won't really stop sounding weird, will just get a little less so! I'm almost 29 weeks now and it still doesn't really seem real sometimes, but it physically feels very real! I'm doing pretty well all things considered! xx
OH. MY. GOD!!! This is just the bestest most amazing news EVER!!!! I am beside myself for you lovely!!! This has made my morning!!! Many many many many congratulations!! if anyone deserves this you do. So many hugs being sent your way!! WHOOOOP!!!! xxxx
I am so pleased to have another beautiful soul into our pregnancy club 🥰 massive congratulations from me!! Prepare your largest clothes, lots of pillows 😂😂 and strength to go through everything!!! You will "enjoy" them soon 🙈😁🤩 Oh I am so happy that this cycle worked!!! ♥️🥳🎊
Thank you so much ❤️ It feels amazing to finally be a member 😊Hehe I've got all sorts that my sister has saved for me (for 5 years) so I will be all set hopefully!
Everything is smooth 😂 apart from me looking like a ball 🤣🤣 nothing fits me anymore and I can take a nap while standing 🤩🙈🤣 ohhh these beautiful moments that we dreamed of so many years 🥰😍
Yes we did... But only 2 cycles as we couldn't afford to pay for 3 cycles all upfront which is what our clinic wanted. Plus I'm happier to transfer this year - hopefully in Nov/Dec.Feb seemed a loooong way off which is what it would have been so 🤞Xx
Yay yay yay! I'm genuinely super pleased to see this update Millbanks !!!! You deserve this sooo much and persevered through multiple failed rounds. Wishing a super smooth pregnancy! Xxx
Oh wow! Wishing you so much luck - I think sometimes you just have to perseverance. Try and remember that no matter how difficult it is, there is every chance that it will work. Huge love to you xx
I'm doing OK thank you, hopefully got another egg collection in a couple of weeks and then having them tested and then having a mock cycle before an FET so fingers crossed . X
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Wow I am so happy for you Millbanks. This is amazing news. I was chuffed reading your post this morning. Well done all the perseverance has paid off. Lots of rest and relaxation now xxx
Your news has made my day, and given me hope too (even though I’m a smidge older than you ;).
Next cycle starting next week 🥴. It’s truly back to back! Tummy bruises have at least gone lol.
Re immune protocol did you do intralipids? I’ve got mine ready for when the transfers start but it’s steroids, some other pills, fragmin and intralipids (which I’m a bit worried about) xx
Aww I'm so pleased - it's the main reason I wanted to share as I know so many of us have been through so much - it's hard to stay positive but it can work!!
I did do intralipids and 20mg prednisolone a day. The intralipids were much better than I was expecting - not painful or anything, just a little canular like when you go for egg collection and it only took about 30 mins. No side affects after. You'll be fine xxx
OK thanks, thats good to know re intralipids as getting nervous :). Did you see Dr Shehata in Epsom for your immune protocol or did do it direct with your fertility clinic? xxx
Hi Millbanks. Looking good so far. i truly hope all continues as it should. Not too long before you get to see your little "bean" - now that will be magical. Diane
Alas we had our 6th bfn this week from a double DE transfer. But I’m doing ok, think I’m getting used to this shit 🙄 back to the drawing board again. Xx
Oh I’m so so happy to hear your news!! You deserve it so much!! Wishing you the best with the pregnancy! Look after yourself and enjoy every moment xxx
Millbanksssss!!!! Yesssss girl! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽😍😍😍 I am SO beyond happy to see this post from you! This is the best news ☺️ You are so deserving of this with everything you’ve gone through! Hope you continue taking it easy and all the best - look forward to seeing more happy updates from you love xxx
Thank you so much!!! I’m absolutely over the moon but still in disbelief….. think it’ll take time for it to sink it. Hope you’re getting on well my lovely 💖❤️🥰 xxx
Hehe, yes I remember that feeling well - definitely surreal but so pleased you’re experiencing it! It’ll definitely feel more real once those wonderful first trimester symptoms kick in and at your next scan! I’m doing well - the heat plus 3rd trimester is an eye opener but otherwise doing just dandy xxx
Haha I know, we wait so long for this that we just want to enjoy every moment. I definitely stuck my head in the bin and dishwasher to check my nausea was still there on more than one occasion 🤣🤣 xxx
I know, I felt like I could only relax after I could start feeling baby kick (which took a while as of course I had an anterior placenta) but that wasn’t until 23 weeks for me! Try and take one day at a time (it’s hard I know..!). Twinges are definitely normal, I had pulling/cramping pretty much through 1st trimester - uterus is just stretching to make some room for the little one. Xxx
Just over 8 weeks to go now..hoping he will continue baking until September. I have a scan next week to check his growth so obviously there is some anxiousness (as always) but it is definitely starting to feel real and tangible now 🙈 do you know when you’ll have your viability scan yet? Xxx
Ah so exciting! The countdown is on. 🙌🏽 Have everything crossed it will all be positive and will keep a look out on your posts. Keep your feet up and take it easy until then lovely xxx
I’m scheduled for my ERA testing in about 2 weeks time, awaiting results then transfer. Hopefully all goes well! Very happy to hear your news, miracles do happen.. Xx
Aww I’m so pleased. It’s the main reason I wanted to post this as I know how hard it is when you get to 4/5/6… but it can work!! For me I think the immune protocol was key. Got everything crossed for you xxx
We are 30 weeks now!!! She is on the smaller side so they are monitoring her growth very closely to make sure she doesn't need to come out sooner than later but as of now all is going well!!! I am so very happy for you though, you are one of the women that I admired for not giving up and to keep pushing forward for this so I cannot wait to follow your progress!!!! Good luck and keep us posted!!!
Aww that’s great! Hope she manages to keep cooking full term ❤️That’s so kind of you to say 🥰 I always felt that I couldn’t give up when there were still things to try and I’m so so happy that we got a positive. A really long way to go but it’s a great start 💖 xx
You're such a sweetheart, thank you. Looking forward to trying naturally next week!! First natural attempt we've had since April (had the IVF then husband was away for a month after our failed transfer in June so we missed this month). But as I'm assuming we won't strike gold there,, I'll start downregging for the next cycle in Sept. Wishing you all the luck in the world with each precious milestone xx
That's just not where you want to be - but fingers crossed this will be the one and you won't have to worry about it again! Everything crossed for you xx
I was just reading through your old post about ERA and curiously clicked on ur profile and seen this recent post. So very pleased for you! Congratulations, such beautiful news! Xx
That’s so kind of you, thank you! It’s still all a bit surreal to be honest. I think the ERA and the steroids did the trick. How are you getting on? Xxx
Aww good luck! Everything crossed my lovely. Still not quite able to relax and enjoy it just yet - scan next week so hopefully that’ll be ok and then it can start to feel a bit more real. Xxx
Yes this is my first experience of it so not really sure what to expect but unfortunately have seen so many horror stories on here that it makes me nervous 😟 xx
I wonder if a lot of the positives don’t post as they worry it’s insensitive. I felt like you and that’s why I wanted to post a positive scan result to give others hope! Not long to go now Xx
Remember you're likely to read the difficult stories here - people rarely share the positive stories! The most important thing is for you to look after yourself and listen to your body, take lots of rest breaks and eat little and often!
Hey Millbanks! I found your hope giving post and just wondering - with the lucky euploid transfer, did you follow era results? I.e. 24 h more of progesterone? And also, it was the first time you pgta tested ? Thanks!
Yes it was the first time we’d definitely used a euploid embryo and we also used the ERA timing (we’d used that before but it hadn’t been successful) it was 137 hours of progesterone.
Thank you so much for your answer! I am now doing era, and we plan to transfer our (one and only) euploid embryo next cycle. All this after 5 transfers of 7 beautiful embryos...
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