Had medical management 18/12 for mmc and thought that was it. Wrong.
Tonight tmi passing huge amounts of tissue. They're not sure if it's the placenta so sending it off to the lab. I'm starting to find the whole mmc really distressing now. Bleeding now in full flow whereas before it was just like a normal period. I just want answers why on earth this happend to us at 9 weeks. Feeling so alone as oh is completely unsupportive. There's literally no point talking to him. Final cycle could literally break us if it fails again or results in another mmc x
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Hope you are okay as you can be. It’s a shit time of year for this to be happening to you. I had a melt down yesterday just for not having a baby so god knows how you feel. Sending you lots of love and rest up.so shit that we have to put up with this horrible journey.❤️ xxxx
I am sending you lots of love. I am so sorry. This is overwhelming - try and take it slowly and each day as it comes...most importantly, you need to look after your body x
This happened to me too. Thought it was all done then two weeks later while out for a meal it started. Was awful. Turns out hospital should of checked on me after the medical management and I got lost to follow up 😔.
Sending big hugs ❤️ xx
I’m so sorry this is happening to you Jessy and more so that you aren’t getting the support you deserve and need so much. I hope this nightmare is over for you soon xx
I am so sorry to hear this! Sometimes men do not understand how much we have been through during our ivf journeys. If you need to chat, I am here for you!!! Sending you big hugs! X
Really sorry to hear you're going through this and the MMC isn't over yet. This is especially a terrible time of year for it to be happening. Hope you can have some enjoyment from your Christmas. Sorry your OH still isn't being supportive. This is a really tough thing to go through. Post on here any time you need, but also make sure you have someone to talk to. I know it's traumatic, but hospital is the best place and I'm glad you're getting care there. This is awful awful, but you are stronger than you know. This will not break you. You will get through this.
I just want my baby back. I thought I'd be announcing it nye. My oh kids are with us tomorrow. He keeps telling me how much he loves his kids but I loved my baby 😢
Aww Jessy I’m so sorry you’re having to go through this!! It sounds so similar to my MMC. I would request a scan and blood test to check if everything has passed. They made me wait 3 weeks and then take a pregnancy test (which was an horrendous thing to have to do!) and when it came up positive scanned me and gave me a second round of medical management. In hindsight I would have insisted on a scan and bloods at the hospital.
It’s such a devastating thing to go through and you need to look after yourself and take time to grieve your loss. I know every person reacts and heals differently, but all I can say is that for me it did eventually start to get easier. I will always love the baby I lost and I do still find it difficult and emotional at times, but I’m starting to move forward slowly. It just takes time. My OH took a long time to open up about it (& still hasn’t really). But now he’s keen to get back to trying now.
Sending you lots of love and hugs xx
That's so not fair is it especially just before Christmas as well!
I’m so sorry to hear this, I know how heartbreaking a miscarriage can be. It will surely get better with time, however you will never forget and always love your baby. You will have some days when you will feel really low, lonely and angry. We are here to listen and help each other as much as we can, unfortunately only people who experienced it can truly understand it. A pregnancy will happen again for us and we will have our rainbow baby one day.
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