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2 follicles, 3 eggs collected - only 1 made it and 2weeks later not pregnant 💔

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Lowamh

I’m sorry. I’ve been there with very similar numbers. It’s hard. Keep going. You’ll get there x

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Shirazlover2013

I’m so sorry nessie86, that’s exactly how my 1st round went and it was so disappointing after having waited for so long to start ivf. Look after yourself xx

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WeeJacs

So sorry to hear this, BFN for us today too. Take care of yourself xx

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Lou7744

I’m so sorry to read this. Sending big hugs 💕 xx

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Picalilli99

So sorry, sending hugs xxx

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AliceMoonpie

It's tough isn't it? We had similar thing just recently. It sounds callous but reading about other people's struggles really helps me. I don't feel so alone. xxx

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Core

So so sorry to read this, sending hugs xx

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Emmaxxx

It’s absolutely heartbreaking. We have been there 4 times. All I can say is keep going and be be strong xx

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Hope25

I am so so sorry to hear this :( no words seem right but thinking of you

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Nessie86

Everyone kept telling to be positive and it’ll happen 🙄 if I had a pound for every time I heard those damn words! I feel like I’ve failed even though we have no control. We will get there eventually but what a shitty journey xx

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Lorita1984

Just wanted to send you a hug xxxxxxxxxx ♥️♥️

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Nessie86

Just wanted to say a big thank you to you lovely ladies for your kind words and thoughts, honestly don’t know what I’d do without this support xxxx

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mimisquiz77

Oh dear... I am so sorry. Ivf is so hard.... sending you a big hug. Take care x

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GELL18

Heart broken for you... sending hugs it's a tough journey.. we have to stay strong

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LKT1

So sorry I had the same thing my first round. They learn so much and analyse each point of your process so they hopefully should be able to change or tweak your meds to increase chances for next round. I had my meds changed and I still only had one embryo survive but it was a much better quality and now I’m 18 weeks pregnant. It sucks to have a BFN but just keep looking forwards as it may happen next time xx

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Rainbowhope

So sorry to read this today. I know you must be heartbroken. Keep strong.......xxxxxx

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Poppyhead

I’m so sorry xxxxx

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Countrychic

So sorry to here this, it is absolutely devastating. Our first round we only got three eggs and didn’t make it to transfer. We are currently undergoing our second round which is going much better so far. First round we only had 5 follicles and at the same stage this time we have 11 this time. Still early days but the two rounds have been night and day. At the very least, it has shown us that my body can respond. I was really sceptical after my first round that things could get better. I feel much more positive now. Hopefully the doctors will tweek your medication and you will get a better response next time.

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aamiller405

Aw no im so sorry.. Take time to heal and look after yourself xo

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CBOO1

I know just how you feel, this is what happened to us on our first full cycle - we got 3 follicles, 2 eggs, 2 embryos transferred & nothing. I couldn’t even cry to start with I just felt numb. It really is the shittiest thing to go through all this fertility stuff & unless you’ve been through it there’s no way of understanding, other people just don’t get it. My mum has been listening to fertility week on radio 2 last week & she said the next person to say to her oh if she just relaxed it’d happen or she’s only young...... she’s going to punch them! 😆 We’re just waiting for my period so we can get the go ahead for our next try, best of luck to you for when you feel strong enough to try again, it’s taken me a good 6 months - the idea of scans & injections just made me clamp my legs shut & say get away from me!! Much love xxx

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