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Not sure why I do it to myself I promised I wouldn’t test early this time....but I did and wished I hadn’t bothered!!

7dp5day blasto and a BFN not even a faint line so looks like another failed cycle no more Frosties so will have to go through the whole ivf cycle again......

Getting some cramps now on and off pains on my left side and left side seems like my ovaries no sore boobs just all signs of af coming so so gutted 😢😢 kept positive but after the negative test I’ve lost all hope now good luck to all of you with BFP XXX

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Oooo I'm sorry, so disappointing but hang on in there until test day! There's still a chance, I'm sure I've read women here had BFN that early and gone on to have BFP. Big hugs XX

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It’s so hard to stay positive when you see that bfn I would of thought at 7days it would be a clear BFP if it was going to work thanks Hun xx

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Blue1986

Hello, give it a few more days. I got a bfp at 9dp5dt, if I'd have taken the test earlier it would have been stark white. You're not out yet. Good luck

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Sexy376 in reply toBlue1986

You think I still got a chance? What was you taking and how did you feel? X

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Blue1986 in reply toSexy376

Certainly. I had almost no symptoms, my boobs hurt straight after the transfer and I had some cramping, like af cramping.

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Sexy376 in reply toBlue1986

I’m putting the sore boobs down to the medication I’ve got cramping but mostly where my ovaries are x

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Hope76

Hi please don’t give up until OTD it is so difficult I know but stress doesn’t help. I feel it can still be too early do not give up hope 🤞🏼🙏🏻

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Sexy376 in reply toHope76

Thanks Hun them little words mean so much I’m trying so hard xx

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Hope76 in reply toSexy376

Am glad Hun as you know I know what your going through it is hell. If it was me I wouldn’t test again until OTD as I fell into the trap of early testing recently and wish to god I never as just made me panic and I was a worrying mess. Learned my lesson x

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Sexy376 in reply toHope76

I shouldn’t of tested at all silly me it’s so so hard not too test and I agree as now I’m panicking and feeling negative about everything x

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Kitcat12

Still early lovely! My BFP at 8dp5dt was barely there faint, next morning on a FRER it was nice and clear. Embryos sometimes take a little longer to implant, stay positive! x

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Sexy376 in reply toKitcat12

Awwww Hun I’ve been following you aswell I was really hoping day 7 today would of shown up mine wasn’t even there faint at all I used clearblue one xx

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Kitcat12 in reply toSexy376

Clearblue are some of the least sensitive ones!! Try a FRER, they are super sensitive. It's not over yet ❤️❤️x

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Sexy376 in reply toKitcat12

Oh yeah I have heard this before but I thought they measured all the same hcg?

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Kitcat12 in reply toSexy376

Just measure it at different levels 👍🏼

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Sexy376

I really don’t understand the whole hcg amounts in testing how can a couple of days make such a difference?

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Kitcat12 in reply toSexy376

Different brands of test pick up different levels of HCG. For example to get a positive on clear blue you need 20ml/u in your urine but with FRER you only need 6ml/u. And the levels of HCG double roughly every 24 hours at the beginning, so a few days can make such a huge difference! Please try to stay positive for a few more days x

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