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Hi everyone. Im celebrating even the smallest of milestones, we’ve moved to 2-3 weeks now and I have an NHS scan book 21st August and a private scan 13th August. Soooo excited!!!

Sometimes I think about bad things and anxiety and have terrible worries, but I think to just keep thinking of positivity and why won’t it happen to me if it happens to so many others.

I’ve already had 1 MC at 12 weeks and I’m determined to think it will never happen again! Hope everyone is ok. Laura xxx

Ps I know I’m so lucky to be in this situation and I am so grateful!

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lolly2019

Woohoo!! So exciting!!! Congrats again. It’s absolutely no wonder you ave worries and anxieties, just don’t let them take over. Do something kind for yourself every. single.day ands take care xx

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crisps88 in reply tololly2019

Thanks Hun. That’s such good advice I feel like I would say this to other people it's just so hard to say to yourself!! Lol. Thanks again hope you’re well xxxx

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Alexa3

Amazing, congratulations!!! Stay positive, it’s working for you...you have lots to be excited about xx

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crisps88 in reply toAlexa3

Thanks lovely 😊 really kind. Hope your second cycle is progressing and keep us updated when it begins. Xxx

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Millbanks

Yaaaay!!! So exciting. Must be hard to keep a sensible head 🙃 xxx

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crisps88 in reply toMillbanks

Thanks lovely. I know it’s super hard to keep level headed haha. Just imaging the best news ! How’s things with your period any arrival ? Hope you’re ok. Xxx

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Millbanks in reply tocrisps88

😬💖 nothing yet 🤷🏼‍♀️ with a normal cycle I usually start spotting around day 22 but had nothing for 6 days so just a waiting game... 😖 xx

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crisps88 in reply toMillbanks

Grrr! That’s so annoying. Your poor body mustn’t know what’s going on! Xxxx

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Noah1981

Please god it’s going all the way and why wouldn’t it roll on the new year for the new arrival 🥰🥰 xx

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crisps88 in reply toNoah1981

Thank you so much. You’re so kind to all us girls whatever the situation I am praying the absolute best for you, you deserve it more than anyone. Xxx

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Noah1981 in reply tocrisps88

Bless your heart I’m rooting for you all xx

Only just seen your happy news huge congrats so pleased for you totally deserved. All the best with your pregnancy good luck with the scan ❤️xoxo

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crisps88 in reply to

Thank you Hun!!! Hope everything is good and your little miracle lady is well. Yayyy thanks! Roll on scan 😬!! Cheers Hun xxx

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MissSaoPaulo

I think it's impossible not to be anxious, especially after a loss, but you're right to celebrate the small milestones. Congratulations and here's hoping for a smooth, healthy rest of the pregnancy xxx

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crisps88 in reply toMissSaoPaulo

Yeh definitely I feel like I’m winning, just want to fast forward to scan!! Thanks Hun. How are you feeling? So exciting!!!Do you have a due date? I can’t see most of your posts as they’re hidden to me on a different forum community. X xx

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MissSaoPaulo in reply tocrisps88

I'm doing fine. BB was actually due last Wed so impatiently waiting but feeling ok physically. I hope time doesn't drag too much until your scan xxx

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crisps88 in reply toMissSaoPaulo

Oh wowsers so any day eeek!! I know I’m counting down the minutes, after the TWW the waiting only gets worse lol. Xxx

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SparkleCock

What a magic photo! Keep going mama xx

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crisps88 in reply toSparkleCock

Thinking of you and your 4 little angels!!! 🤞 🤞 🤞 keep us updated how you’re getting on. Thanks !!! 😁 xxx

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SparkleCock in reply tocrisps88

Thanks honey. As my husband suffers from anxiety and depression it is tricky not to have the enthusiasm I would like. He does his best on the nuts and bolts but it’s wonderful to have this cheerleading squad to turn to xox

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crisps88 in reply toSparkleCock

Oh god say that again , don’t know what I’d do without here! Oh bless him. That must be difficult for you to, I have everything crossed. How are you doing? Xxx

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SparkleCock in reply tocrisps88

Well we leave Greece to go back to HK today. First day he’s smiled as he said it’s been like purgatory here... he’s happier now than when we got four amazing embryos. I feel fine though. So long as I block the disappointment out. He is AMAZING with his two sons from previous marriage so I know he’ll be an epic dad but he’s already said let’s not talk about IVF again... 🤡😎😱 xox

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crisps88 in reply toSparkleCock

It must be tough for him too, he must be hurting seeing what you’re going through. So positive 4 precious amazing embryos onboard though!! I have seriously everything crossed for you. And you’re right to only think positive, this cycle is going to be the one! X x x x

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SparkleCock in reply tocrisps88

You’re an angel xox

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crisps88 in reply toSparkleCock

Hope you’re feeling ok and everything is alright! X x

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SparkleCock in reply tocrisps88

Hey sweetheart. How are you getting on? I had my long haul flight from Athens to HK yesterday so felt s bit overwrought but ok today. Just super crampy and a bit nauseous. Darn progesterone and nerves xx

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crisps88 in reply toSparkleCock

Takes good, hopefully your side effects are the sign!! Wow that’s a lot to go through such a long flight. Hope you’re liking after yourself xxx

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SparkleCock in reply tocrisps88

I met with my best friend today. We had a mani pedi and then a three course lunch at my favourite restaurant and then some reflexology. I said I was pregnant just in case and just got one of the best massages of my life. Most pleased with self :) also picked up some preggo tests so I can have a peek before OTD. I know it’s not reliable and my husband doesn’t agree with it but I can’t resist some early stick peeing. How are you? Xox

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crisps88 in reply toSparkleCock

I love this day it sounds gorge. Literally throughout my TWW I spent it relaxing, going for meals, spa day and generally just doing Whatever I felt like doing mostly chilling on the sofa with food and my fur baby! I even slipped in some sunbathing. So you sound like you’re doing the best things! Omg I don’t blame you! You and master sparkle cock have decided on the weekend totest? I did it before husband knew too 5dp5dt I’m naughty! X x x

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SparkleCock in reply tocrisps88

I've literally hid the preggo tests in the ovulation tests box under sink... haha

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Kiedy84

Congratulations and well done for staying positive 😘

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crisps88 in reply toKiedy84

Thank youuuu! And obvs congrats again on your little baby boy!! 💖 xxx

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Core

So happy for you, great seeing each stage xx

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crisps88 in reply toCore

Thanks sweetie, just replied to You- book that holiday you won’t regret it!!! Xx

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Olivia1980xxx

Amazing once again congratulations hun xx

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crisps88 in reply toOlivia1980xxx

Aw cheers chick. How’s you TWW going??? Are you surviving lol xx

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Kyell2

Lovely lovely news. So pleased the weeks are going up 😊 x

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crisps88 in reply toKyell2

Thanks Hun can’t wait for scan !!! How’s your FET going? X x x

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Kyell2 in reply tocrisps88

Still about 2 weeks away I think. Scan is booked for next Monday so still a bit of a wait x

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crisps88 in reply toKyell2

Glad it’s progressing for you. Take care lovely xxxx

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Scarlett13

Yay!!!!! Xxx one step at a time.....❤️

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crisps88 in reply toScarlett13

Woo, defo the little things are worth celebrating at this point! 😬 😁 xxx

Yes! Another step forward!! So thrilled for you xx

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crisps88 in reply to

Thank you Hun, I know you’re so kind such a star. I’m just counting down for this scan now ! Eek !! Xxxx

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crisps88 in reply to

How you getting on Hun xx

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mimisquiz77

Hi, congratulations!!! That’s wonderful news! I hope your pregnancy will go smoothly... take care x

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crisps88 in reply tomimisquiz77

Aw Thank you for your reply, hope you’re well and things are progressing for you lovely. Xxx

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Hope4usall

Hey!! Well done on getting to your next milestone. Congratulations! Stay with the positivity! Xxx

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crisps88 in reply toHope4usall

Oh thank you Huni. Glad you’ve got your August date for Madrid 🥰 X x x

Cooking nicely 😂 great! XXX

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crisps88 in reply to

Lol!!! Keeping all my fingers and toes crossed for our little bean cooking haha. Xxxx

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CLDxxx

Ah this is so exciting! Not long to wait now until your first scan 🤗 hope you’re feeling ok. Xxx

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crisps88 in reply toCLDxxx

Eeek I know! A week Tuesday for private one and then another week after us NHS one I’m super excited! How you doing lovely ? xxx

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CLDxxx in reply tocrisps88

How lovely ☺️ is your NHS scan early too? I’m good thank you, lovely being away and switching off & thinking all being well this will be my last holiday in my current situation 🥰 xxx

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crisps88 in reply toCLDxxx

You enjoying your time away? Yess for sure so make the most of it, next cycle you’ll be with bump !! Oh enjoy yourself and do what you normally wouldn’t. I did two big boozy holidays before my second cycle. NHS scan is just when they gave it me, 21st August and private I wanted the week before so 13th eek. X x x

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CLDxxx in reply tocrisps88

Yes having a lovely time thank you. Lovely to have some time out and think about everything while relaxing! Ahh bet you can’t wait!! Xxx

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crisps88 in reply toCLDxxx

Yes I love this !!! Hope you’re having such a good time you deserve it xxxx

Exciting times, small milestones should be celebrated thru this difficult process congrats xx

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crisps88 in reply to

Thank you darling. How are you coping? Stupid question I suppose. So sorry for you again. Xxx

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Ur welcome so pleased to read success stories. I am ok found the last couple of days hard as period has come so sounds silly but found it upsetting and it’s been really really heavy and uncontrollable so quite drained. I know they are usually heavy but can only think it may be due to chemical. I will b ok just feeling sorry for myself and finding it hard when boyfriend doesn’t understand but hey this is why this place is great. U take care of urself xx

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crisps88 in reply to

Yeh it’s tricky,’I don’t think anyone really understands your situation evenness though OHs are with and around us a lot through bad times it’s the feelings of low and despair. Oh god first period is hideous I think because yeh it’s so heavy and hard but also because it’s the actual significance of the period that feels so cruel. I’m sorry for you love X x x

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I will b fine, u just concentrate on ur exciting & wonderful times ahead 👍👏🏻 Xx

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Hope you’re alright xx

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Dreamingofbaby

Congratulations that ace news. Hope all goes well in this pregnancy 🤞🤞🎉🎉

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crisps88 in reply toDreamingofbaby

Thanks Hun!! I know eeek ! How are things progressing in your FET? X x x

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Dreamingofbaby in reply tocrisps88

No worries v exciting. Only just begun my cycle so be testing for ovulation next week. It early days at mo. All being well my transfer will be in a couple of weeks 🤞🤞xx

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crisps88 in reply toDreamingofbaby

Oooo I have all my fingers crossed! Ok that’s good things are moving along. Keep us updated chic. Xxx

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SunnyDream

My congratulations, crisps88! It is amazing news and I am so happy for you. I am on my way abroad for signing docs to start my surrogacy program and I truly believe that I will see the same result soon) I am excited because I know that it will work out. The place where I am going is very good and the doctors are professionals so I hope they know what they are doing)) Fingers crossed) And I wish you the best of luck on your scan.

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crisps88 in reply toSunnyDream

Thanks so much SunnyDream much appreciated! I love your belief and positivity and that you put it in the universe it will come back to you. Keep us updated on your progress I’m wishing the best for you Hun xxx

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SunnyDream in reply tocrisps88

Sure, hun! I have already been to the clinic and signed my contract! Finally, my last journey has been started! Can't wait meeting our surrogate and got acquainted with her. I really hope that we will find a common language and can communicate from time to time.

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crisps88 in reply toSunnyDream

That’s brilliant!! That’s great you get the opportunity to do that and brilliant that everything is progressing !!! Yay xxx

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SunnyDream in reply tocrisps88

You made me smile hun)) Thanks for that! So positive words will probably make my day!)) How do you feel today? Do you have any symptoms now? I didn't have any and was worried about that, but I know that it is quite normal.

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Lorry1984

Congratulations. Hope you have a happy and healthy pregnancy xx

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crisps88 in reply toLorry1984

Thanks Hun. Hope your injections are going ok. Wishing you lots of luck xcc

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crisps88

Thanks Hun. Hope your injections are going ok. Wishing you lots of luck xcc

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CLDxxx

Good luck for your private scan tomorrow lovely 😘 xxx

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crisps88 in reply toCLDxxx

Aw thank you lovely you’re really kind and thoughtful. Hope you’re ok cxc

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