OTD tomorrow and I’m terrified!

[Kat_15]

Hi fellow IVF warriors 💪🍍🌈

Tomorrow is our official OTD and I am absolutely terrified to do the test! I have had a fair few symptoms but I’m on a high dose of the drugs so it may well be the medications I’m on.

I’m working from home tomorrow but I have got a number of deadlines to meet so I’ve decided I’m going to take a sample of my wee first thing and then use that and ‘fresh’ wee to test later in the day!

We have no Frosties available so it will be back to square one if it hasn’t worked which fills me with dread as it’s so hard to keep taking time off work. I haven’t told my boss yet but may need to discuss with him going forward I think.

Any advice on coping with a negative result? I feel so grateful to get this far but it’s so hard not to get your hopes up isn’t it?

Thank you so much for all your thoughtful, kind and fab advice. You’re all amazingly strong and inspirational women. xxx 💪🍍🤞🍀🌈

[Solly-44]

Awww I’ve got everything crossed for you! Wishing you all the luck for tomorrow lovely xxx

[Kat_15 in reply to Solly-44]

Thanks so much. 😀😘💪xxx

[Noah1981]

We all get our hopes up it’s all we have going forward on this shit roller coaster is hope and unfortunately with a negative the only thing we can do is pick ourselves up and go again (shit advise I know cause I cried for two week my tear ducts have dried up so I’ve officially stopped crying now 😂😂 but look positive thinking of course it will be a bfp I’m rooting for you and I look forward to congratulating you tomorrow darling 🥰🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞

[Kat_15 in reply to Noah1981]

Thanks lovely for your kind message. I’m so sorry about your recent result. Sending you big hugs and keeping my fingers and toes crossed for your next cycle. 🤞🍀🤞Thank you for all your thoughtful messages and support, particularly when you have been going through such a tough time. 🤗❤️🤞🍀🌈💪xxx

[Noah1981 in reply to Kat_15]

I just thrive on other people’s bfp because it give me hope that they soldiered on and reaped there reward and I will soldier on too till we also have our beautiful baby too good luck today I’m really really feeling positive for ya xxx 🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞

[Hope76]

Wishing you the very best of luck, I always waited till OTD or day before as I couldn’t handle the torture of testing every day.

Trust me am only 3dpt & already convinced I have symptoms 😂. It is a crazy 2ww and I always think first week takes ages then 2nd speeds up and you almost don’t want to do the test. That’s a shame you have deadlines with work, so understand why you would wait.

All I can say is when I thought it Defo hadn’t worked it was a BFP and the time I was convinced it had was a BFN.

What will be will be am praying you get the news you greatly deserve 🙏🏻

[Kat_15 in reply to Hope76]

Hello, thank you for your kind message. Yes, that what I have felt like. I have been so tempted to test early but then worried if I did that I would be causing unnecessary upset if it was negative.

I was exactly the same! I was convinced I said symptoms from early on! 😂 How are you feeling?

Keeping my fingers and toes crossed for you. When is your OTD? I hope the 2ww goes quickly for you! xxx 🍀🤞🍀

[Cici85]

Praying for you and hope it’s a BFP in a few hours.

[Kat_15 in reply to Cici85]

Thank you so much Cici. Wishing you all the best with your journey too. xx

[Hidden]

Wishing you the very best of luck for a positive result.

The only way I have picked myself up from a negative is by starting to plan my next transfer/cycle as it gives me something to focus on but sending positive vibes xx

[Kat_15 in reply to Hidden]

Thanks so much for your kind message Claire, particularly when you’re going through such a tough time. So sorry to read your recent news, sendings you lots of hugs! Wishing you lots of positive vibes for your next cycle. xx 🤗🌈❤️

[Lots8788]

Have everything crossed for you for tomorrow! xxx

[Kat_15 in reply to Lots8788]

Thanks so much. Wishing you all the best for your guest cycle. xxx 🌈🍀🤞

[Lots8788 in reply to Kat_15]

Thanks lovely xxx

[everhopeful83]

Wishing you all the luck in the world for tomorrow Kat 🌍💫🌈💕🤞🏼xxxx

[Kat_15 in reply to everhopeful83]

Aww thanks so much. How is your 2ww going? 🤞🍀🌈❤️💪 xxx

[everhopeful83 in reply to Kat_15]

Ups & downs! Just reading what others have said & im the same. I go from being really positive to omg this definitely hasn’t worked 🙈😆 it really does play with your mind!! I really hope you get your happy ending tomorrow💞 I’m rooting for you💪🏼

How have you found it? I’m dreading Monday 🙈xxx

[Kat_15 in reply to everhopeful83]

I have felt exactly the same! I go from being convinced I’m pregnant and then waking up the next day thinking it’s definitely not worked! 😂 🤦‍♀️The first week went quite slowly but I have found this week has gone fairly quickly.

Sending lots of positive vibes and luck to you for Monday. 🤞🍀🤞I’m rooting for you too! 🌈🤞🍀❤️ xxx

[everhopeful83 in reply to Kat_15]

Thank you 🥰💕🤞🏼💪🏼xxx

[Hidden]

All I would say Kat is its 50/50 so let’s focus on the positives of it being a BFP u have had some symptoms which sound like a good sign so focus on this. If it is a negative u will get thru it & u can deal with that once u know 4 sure but u may not even need to. I have everything crossed and am wishing u the very best of luck 🤞☺️🍀 xx

[Kat_15 in reply to Hidden]

Hi Coral. Thank you so much for your kind message. I’m so sorry to read your recent news, sending you big hugs. Wishing you all the best for your onward IVF journey. 🌈❤️🍀xxx

[Hidden in reply to Kat_15]

Thanks Kat very kind of u xx

[JadeH92]

Wishing you lots of luck 🤞🤞🤞

[Kat_15 in reply to JadeH92]

Thanks so much Jade. How’s your 2ww going? xx 🤞🍀🌈

[Kitty230515]

Fingers crossed for you! Xx

[Kat_15 in reply to Kitty230515]

Thanks so much for your kind message Kitty. I’m so sorry to read your sad news. Sending you big hugs at this tough time. xx

[Hidden]

Good luck! X

[Kat_15 in reply to Hidden]

Thanks so much for your kind message. Wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy. 🌈🌟☺️ xxx

[Kyell2]

Sending lots of positive thoughts xx

[Kat_15 in reply to Kyell2]

Thanks so much for your kind message. Wishing you all the best with your future IVF journey. 🌈🍀🤞 xxx

[crisps88]

Omg good luck Hun!!! I have everything crosses for you. You’ve done sooo well to wait and I hope so much that you get your BFP. Thinking of you lovely xxx

[Kat_15 in reply to crisps88]

Thanks so much for your kind message. So happy for you, wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy. Thank you for your support. xxx

[Olivia1980xxx]

Hun fingers crossed for u 2morrow xx🙏

[Kat_15 in reply to Olivia1980xxx]

Thanks so much Olivia. How are you finding your 2ww? Wishing you a speedy two weeks. xx 🤞🍀🌈

[Olivia1980xxx in reply to Kat_15]

Hi hun I’m just trying not to look for any symptoms.... Special that this time is different because is natural cycle so I don’t really know what is good sign and what not...us I only had fresh cycles.

My OTD is this Tuesday coming....another long 4 days ....😬xx

Is your OTD is 2day or 2morrow ?

I wish u massive BFP hun xx

[Shelleybean]

Lots of luck!! 🤞🤞🤞🤞 xx

[Kat_15 in reply to Shelleybean]

Thanks so much Shelley. Wishing you all the best for your journey too. Xx

[Scarlett13]

Good luck xxxxxx

[Kat_15 in reply to Scarlett13]

Thanks so much for your kind message Scarlett. Wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy. So pleased for you. xxxx 🍍🌈❤️

[Hidden]

Wishing you lots of luck and love for today xxxx

[Kat_15 in reply to Hidden]

Thanks so much for your kind message Anna. Wishing you all the best for your third cycle. xxx

[LKT1]

Thinking of you today! Fingers crossed it’s a BFP but if not, try to remember the drs learn so much from each round so they should be able to improve your chances for next time. Remember to put yourself first, don’t be afraid to call in sick if you don’t feel up to meeting those deadlines. You are an ivf warrior but remember we are still only human so Whatever the results, give yourself some headspace to process the outcome.wishing you all the best xx

[Kat_15 in reply to LKT1]

Thanks so much your thoughtful message. So pleased to see you got a BFP! Wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy. Thanks again for your support. xxx 🌈🍍❤️

[Georgie17]

God luck, I'm keeping everything crossed for you. I'm testing on Sunday. I really hope this is it for us both x

[Kat_15 in reply to Georgie17]

Thanks so much for your kind messed Georgie. I really hope it’s a BFP for you on Sunday. I’m rooting for you. 💪🤞🌈🍀 xxx

[aamiller405]

Well done for not testing until OTD. I hope with all my heart I read good news from you later on today 🤞🤞🤞♥️♥️♥️ xo

[Kat_15 in reply to aamiller405]

Thank you so much for your thoughtful message. How is your 2ww going? Thinking of you and sending positive vibes. xxx 🤞❤️🍀🌈

[aamiller405 in reply to Kat_15]

It's a lot harder to distract myself than I had imagined but surviving lol.. Be on later to hear your news xo

[Apples2665]

Best of luck to you. Will keep everything crossed x

[3005]

Good Luck today 🤞🏻🍀

I didn’t have any Frosties either so I get how you’re feeling.

I actually booked up to see a show the day after my OTD so that either way it would take my mind off things. But honestly the only way round it is time and in my case counselling.

However don’t think about anything like that yet! Sending positive thoughts x