9dp5dt nothing to really tell

[Gilmoregirl]

Hi Ladies, so I’ve another 3 days until test day on June 11th. Not really been tempted to test because then for sure I’ll know if what my gut tells me is true. I don’t really have anything to tell me it’s worked... no real changes or signs (only lots of watery discharge (( sorry tmi)). Surely I’d be feeling something if it’s worked by now?

[chickp]

I’m due to test on Sunday and I’m not feeling anything either except bloating which I assume is the cyclogest. I’m desperately trying to remember if I felt anything last time when I actually got a bfp but I wasn’t really paying any attention at the time as it was our last iui and I’d mentally moved on to ivf. Unfortunately that one didn’t stick so I’m all over the place emotionally this cycle.

Wishing you luck for the 11th x

[Gilmoregirl in reply to chickp]

I’ve never had a positive so wouldn’t even know what to look out for tha might be subtle hints of a positive!

This is our first cycle and I’m lucky enough to still have another 8 frozen if this doesn’t work.

Good luck on test day!

[Gueritarubia]

Oh, that’s my OTD too! Woke up nauseous this morning but might be the pessaries? Had it last time too and that became a BFP (I’m trying for a sibling now)... but still in doubt if it was a pregnancy symptom as never had morning sickness other than a queasy feeling in the early am/night those first few weeks. I had mild OHSS and the same pessaries, so don’t know what symptom is caused by what! Now also having a stinking cold so who knows what’s what. Sleeping poorly after 5 am, the messy pantyliners,evening bloat but nothing else. Well, headache today but that might be snot! Fingers crossed for us all!

[Gueritarubia in reply to Gueritarubia]

Ah yeah, have joint pain too, particularly on the left wrist, thumb and knee...

[Gilmoregirl in reply to Gueritarubia]

So frustrating isn’t it? I’ve been second guessing and googling every little thing the last 10 days!

[Ldb01 in reply to Gueritarubia]

My only BFP, I was exhausted all day, extremely thirsty all the time. First sign for me was actually a week long headache. Lasted 8 weeks and then I miscarried after my dogs got into a fight and I jumped up to stop the fight.

[feagfrhtfbhsvfadfva]

I too didn't feel much after my 5 day FET transfer except for wet discharge. Guess what? I'm 10 weeks preggers and I still have that discharge. From what I know, watery discharge (there's a medical term for it, but I have no idea how to spell it) is from surges of hormones in your body. You should be able to test 10 days after a 5 day transfer. I got a faint line at that point. Good luck with your beta! xo

[Gilmoregirl in reply to feagfrhtfbhsvfadfva]

Thank you that gives me hope! Wishing a smooth pregnancy!

[Leanne1402]

I tested on day 9 and I had a BFP and now 8 weeks, when I tested I had no symptoms at all. Where as on my first cycle I had loads of symptoms and it was a BFN on OTD I'm currently almost 8 weeks and still don't have many symptoms. Good luck xx

[Gilmoregirl in reply to Leanne1402]

Congratulations! Hearing this from you lovely ladies help ease my anxiety and pessimism.

[Ruby26]

I had no symptoms and got a BFP and when I had symptoms it was a BFN. It’s impossible to tell I think. Best of luck for Sunday 🤞🏼 x

[Gilmoregirl in reply to Ruby26]

Thank you for your positive words! Giving me hope!

[Lifelongdream]

Please try not to worry yourself. I think everyone is different with symptoms. Some people are in pain and go in to have a positive and some people have no pain and also get pregnancy. It could have just been a good one and settled in nicely try and stay positive xxx

[Noah1981]

Not nessasarily I had no signs in my first pregnancy I was just late but that ment nothing either as I was so irregular till I had Noah .Dont loose hope it’s still early days xx

[Sjr1988]

Your progesterone pessaries will give you the same symptoms as a pregnancy anyway so even if you were feeling things it could have been that.... dont second guess anything, you'll tie yourself up in knots overthinking..... my advice is get a first response test and just do it, they're one of the most sensitive tests around and I find them extremely reliable..... take it from someone who knows, 3 rounds of ivf (after a natural stillbirth in a previous relationship I went on to miscarry twins with first round 2nd round didn't work and 3rd round got my little boy now 20wks 11corrected) I found it more stressful hanging on to test because I was overthinking every little twinge, spot, discharge you name it I was guessing! Honestly buy the test, just remember it could be a bfn but be a late implanter so could change to bfp! And if it's a bfp, well theres your answer.... good luck x

[Gilmoregirl in reply to Sjr1988]

Maybe you’re right I’m working all weekend so kinda takes my mind off it and maybe I’ll test a day early!

[Jac3211]

That's same test date as me! Good luck and wishing you all the best 👶🎆

[Gilmoregirl in reply to Jac3211]

Oh good luck! Have u tested yet? How are you feeling?

[Jac3211 in reply to Gilmoregirl]

I was sick as a dog this morning, not actually sick but was shaky and felt like I was gonna be sick that lasted a good 5 hours, have very sore boobs. I have done a test and was faint line there but not sure if it still hcg trigger, so will wait till test date now. I read that in early pregnancy you get discharge so sounds like a positive sign for you. Hope for bfp for both of us x

[Gilmoregirl in reply to Jac3211]

Hopefully 🤞

[Hidden]

I thought I was experiencing symptoms, and analized everything, I waited until my test date, I know some ladies test early but my thinking was they give me the 2 week wait for a reason if it would always show positive after a week it wouldn't be the 2 week wait, I just wanted to trust my clinic and do it when they told me also I couldn't bare the thought of a BFN, that would have made me give up, so I waited and got a BFP, I'm nearly 9 weeks now and looking back I didn't have symptoms, I defo have them now though good luck hope this gives you hope x

[Gilmoregirl in reply to Hidden]

Bet you wouldn’t take ur symptoms back for anything though?! Congrats!

[Dotty224]

I was the same had no symptoms at all and convinced myself it hadn’t worked again. Tested at 9dp5dt and got a faint positive. Now 11 weeks pregnant still have no symptoms but baby is growing perfectly. Good luck xx

[Gilmoregirl in reply to Dotty224]

Lucky you glad you’re feeling good and enjoying your pregnancy!

[Hidden]

Hi Gilmoregirl, just wanted to wish you the very best of luck. I would agree with the other ladies,try not to second guess as the meds give you all kind of symptoms xx

[Gilmoregirl in reply to Hidden]

Thank u I’m gonna hold out another day and test on Monday! It’s my first transfer so I’m just so anxious

[Hidden in reply to Gilmoregirl]

Its only natural to be anxious,ive had 3 transfers to date and it doesn't get any easier but your doing so well. Sending you lots of positive thoughts xx

[Becs1980]

I felt nothing, was convinced it hadn’t worked and BFP. Now I’m sick as a dog all day 😂. Scan on 19th fingers crossed for you xxx

[Gilmoregirl in reply to Becs1980]

Best of luck! I’m sure everything will be fine!

[Maybay]

OFD Same day. I feel nothing except for very very slight period pain type feeling for a couple of seconds per day. I’m overanalysing everything and writing it down.

It’s nice to read here that many feel nothing. Gives me hope. I’ve made two lists of what I will do if it’s positive vs of its negative so I have a plan going forward and something to look forward to either way.

[Gilmoregirl in reply to Maybay]

Oh me too I think about every little twinge! This is it I’m lucky to have another 8 embryos frozen so if it’s not good news I’ll just keep going!

[andromedae9]

HI Gilmoregirl

I know the feeling. My last FET was this Thursday so OTD 15 June. Also thinking if I'm supposed to feel any different apart from the ususal side effects from medication but it seems to vary a lot. Some women do some don't. We just need to try and stay hopeful.

Wishing you the best of luck.

[Maybay]

One more sleep!!!! I’m so nervous 😱

[Gilmoregirl in reply to Maybay]

Honestly.... I’m not. I’m very calm about it all now and just like if it’s negative (which I think it is) then I wanna know how quick I can go again and keep trying. How are you otherwise?

[Maybay]

How did you go??? Sending lots of good luck wishes!

[Gilmoregirl in reply to Maybay]

It’s a positive for me! You??

[Maybay in reply to Gilmoregirl]

Same! Congratulations to us 🌷👍🏻

[Gilmoregirl in reply to Maybay]

Oh wow!!! Brilliant news! Still in shock I think! Tested again this morning just to be sure! 😂