11dp5dt and I am going insane!

[Fellow-IVFer]

I am literally going mad with worry guys 🙈 I still have 2 days until OTD and I am addicted to doing pregnancy tests just to make sure my embryo/s is/ are still there 😩🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼 Am I going crazy 💭🤷🏻‍♀️ I am so desperate to relax and enjoy my pregnancy but I feel so unsafe 😢

[Kitcat12]

Bless you, this is me! In the last 2 weeks I have taken about 15 tests 🙈 I love to see them get darker x

[Fellow-IVFer in reply to Kitcat12]

Thank god im not alone. Was you the same throughout the entire 6 weeks? Did you get worse? I can imagine I'll just continue to worry all the more 🙈 When I call with my result what should I expect? Xx

[Kitcat12 in reply to Fellow-IVFer]

Yep, I've taken a test every single day since 8dp5dt. I think it's mainly because I have had a previous MC and just terrified that it might happen again. When you phone with your result they should book you in for a viability scan within 2-3 weeks. I ended up having an emergency early scan due to bleeding but all was perfect. Just the one out of my two embryos has snuggled in. I'm a worrier as well just like you but do try to enjoy the feeling, pregnancy is so special!

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi. You’re definitely not on your own with this. So many of you cave in before the official test date. Well, all looks good for you at the moment, so stop spending your money and go out for a nice meal! Diane

[Fellow-IVFer in reply to DianeArnold]

Ahhh thanks Diane. My partner is taking me out tomorrow night so that will stop me thinking for a few hours lol xx

[HM_3]

Your picture of loads of positive tests did make me smile. Congratulations hun on the BFP! I think we all go crazy with testing. I was exactly the same

Try not to worry. Relax and I'm sure it will all work out for you xx

[Dotty224]

This was me! Hubby was going mad think we kept clearblue in business 🤦🏼‍♀️ I was testing daily until I had my 7 week scan. Still get the odd urge from time to time but forcing myself not to. Thank god it’s not just me 😂😂 xx

[Fellow-IVFer in reply to Dotty224]

🤣🤣🤣 that made me laugh lol. Was you? I think I'll deffo be the same 🙈 It's definitely not just you lol x

[Littleflower82]

Hi ya getting a pregnant 2-3 weeks on a digital at 11dp is strong sign that ur hcg level is high an all is going well. Can u not get ur go to check ur hcg and again in 48 hrs to make sure it's rising. That might relax u a bit more x ps massive congrats xx

[Fellow-IVFer in reply to Littleflower82]

Oh really 💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻 That has really made my day. I am calling my clinic with my result tomorrow so I guess they will invite me in for a blood test then I will definitely take your advice and ask my GP to repeat early next week 👌🏼 Thank you so so much ❤🤞🏼

[Littleflower82 in reply to Fellow-IVFer]

I got 2-3 weeks 11 do an I'm currently 14 weeks with twins lol good luck and congrats again x

[Fellow-IVFer in reply to Littleflower82]

OMG seriously 🤣🙈 My partner is over the moon with that lol he's always wanted twins haha. OMG congrats to you, I bet you are feeling more relaxed now your past that dreaded 3 month zone ❤🤞🏼🤞🏼

[Littleflower82 in reply to Fellow-IVFer]

Lol thank u, we had 2 blasts transferred so always was that chance, tho this was our 4th transfer, had 3 failed fresh cycles an this was our first fet. Did u have one or 2 transferred. Naw I don't think u ever relax lol, I'm still worrying 🙈

[Fellow-IVFer in reply to Littleflower82]

This is our first IVF and we had 2 Fresh embryos transferred 💃🏻 I'm dying to find out what's going on. Hopefully they will give me some information when I ring tomorrow with my result 💭❤🤞🏼 Was you given a reason for your failed transfers? I'm so sorry to hear about those 😞

[purplerain2000]

Congratulations that is a definite stack of positive results, bless ya its so hard not to stress. Yeah get you hcg levels checked just for further reassurance. xx

[Sam180]

I'm exactly the same. I think I've peed on 12 sticks in the last 4 days to make sure but now I'm totally out of them. The last was a clearblur digital taken yesterday afternoon which showed pregnant 1-2 weeks. I'm just worried that by the time I have my beta it's not going to be there anymore. Only have to wait another day as its set for tomorrow but the worry is immense.

[Fellow-IVFer in reply to Sam180]

OMG I'm exactly the same. I am terrified of the result 😢 I hope I start to relax and enjoy it. I am thinking of taking up yoga 🤷🏻‍♀️ Good luck, keep me posted ❤🤞🏼

[AcuFertilityDoc in reply to Fellow-IVFer]

I think yoga is a great idea! Apparently Tai Chi is even better at making stress go away. I had to laugh reading all these responses. For someone with such great positive documentation, it’s still impossible not to be stressed out. It seems it’s the same all around. I advise my clients to give up google searching compulsively but I think it is out of their hands. The same is true of preg tests. I think maybe we were less stressed out in the good old days before Google and pee tests. In the end, neither seems to reassure. 😅

[Nat9140]

Hi, I am exactly the same !!! I started testing 5dp5dt and did another 6dp5dt!!! What day did you start testing? I am seriously obsessed and I’m only 7dpt. I’m now leaving it until 9dp5dt as I got myself very upset and worked up yesterday. I’m so scared though as my last two round have been chemicals. I understand everyone’s worries. Your tests look great though. I’m praying mine will look better on Saturday. Good luck 🤞🏻