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Hi lovely ladies

Hope everyone is doing well..

My otd is this Friday but I have tested today with first Response pregnancy test and it came out BFN I m very disappoint now bez I know I got only two days I don’t think anything will change in two days but I will still carry on my medications and stuff...

It is very heard to accept that the whole thing didn’t work and I have to go though all over again but I believe what ever happens it’s good for us and trying to move on from here hoping next cycle will be our one in sha Allah 🙏..

Just out of curiosity ladies how long do u think we should have gap after a failed cycle..

I really appreciate ur support lovely ladies.

Thanks in advance for ur comments 🥰🥰

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HM_3

Don't give up completely.sometimes it changes in a few days. If not, your clinic will advise you on next round. Usually a few months! X

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Ourbaby1 in reply to HM_3

Thanks Hun for ur comment😘I know it’s gonna be negative.. I know I will pick myself up I have to ..

My nurse was saying maybe 1 cycle but I think I will prefer have 2 months normal monthly cycle in that case my body will have some rest as well ..

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Katbaby19

Hi there, I also tested today with a first response and it came back negative, my OTD is Friday too so we are in the same boat! It's a horrible feeling. I did my first round back in Jan/Feb and I was about to start again in Apr, so that was a gap of one full cycle. Private mail me if you want more info. Atleast you know your not the only one suffering xx

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Ourbaby1 in reply to Katbaby19

I m soo sorry to hear that .. it is soo frustrating u just don’t know what to do .. I feel like I want someone to tell me I will have a baby oneday.. sometimes I m soo positive sometimes I feel soo depressed.. 😭

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Katbaby19 in reply to Ourbaby1

Yes I always set these timelines in my head, like I want to have a bump at Christmas, or I want to be pregnant before my birthday. And all these timelines keep getting changed. So easy to loose hope, we need to keep positive. Are u going to your clinic on Friday?xx

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Ourbaby1 in reply to Katbaby19

katbaby19 I do the same thing now I don’t want to make any plan ... now I m gonna go by the flow..

I don’t have to go to the clinic bez I m doing a home pregnancy test so if it is negative I will have to call them and they will do a review on my case ..

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Noah1981

Don’t lose hope we are given two week window for a reason you ain’t out yet keep the faith keeping my fingers crossed for you x

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Ourbaby1 in reply to Noah1981

Thank unoah1981 we r still hopefull..but sometimes it’s heard but again I pick myself up and don’t wanna lose hope yet xx

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Stam34

Hoping it’s just a late implantation. Keeping you in my prayers lovely xx

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Ourbaby1

Hi ladies thanks for ur comments..

So I have started spotting today dark brown discharge ☹️ Everything is over

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