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Worried my FET hasn’t worked

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I had my FET on Tuesday and since then I have had nothing but light cramps, like light period cramps. I don’t have tender boobs or anything else.

Last time I had really sharp cramps and really tender boobs. It was a faint positive last time that didn’t last.

I’m just worried this one is a bfn.

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Klndmr

Hey. Don't stress yourself hun! You never know no symptoms might be leading to a positive outcome. Some women have symptoms but dont get positive results. Hang on there and keep positive you have plenty of time to get symptoms! Best of luck and i hope you get a BFP! 😍😊🤗xxx

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Tugsgirl

It’s far too early for symptoms really so try not to worry about that. Hang in there, you’re doing well xx

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Rfletcher

Iv been much more relaxed this time on the run up to it and I have felt relaxed up to today. But I was thinking about last time and I felt so different.

We will just have to wait and see. Xxx

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DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Hi Rfletcher. The cramps you are feeling, could just be down to your womb settling back down after being pulled about during the FET. Too early to test yet, but obviously will be thinking of you and keeping my fingers crossed. Diane

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Abibridget

We are the same my plus is itching body, no sore boobs

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Cinderella5

It's so hard to know what's going on in there. Some people don't get any symptoms and still get a BFP, some get what they think is symptoms and get a bfn. It's torture waiting but try to keep busy! Hang on in there!! Good luck.xx

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Rfletcher in reply to Cinderella5

Thank you. How are you getting on? Have you got long left to wait? Xxx

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Cinderella5 in reply to Rfletcher

Im doing ok thanks, this 2ww has bern the hardest one so far for me!! Head all over the place. Tomorrow is OTD for me!😨xx

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Rfletcher in reply to Cinderella5

Oh wow, well good luck. Have you managed to wait then? It is so tempting to test early.

I waited last time and I’m really trying to this time as well. It’s mad how this one can feel so different to last time.

My fingers are crossed for you. Xxx

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Cinderella5 in reply to Rfletcher

Thank you! It's really hard not to test early but if you can then try hold out....it really messes with your head.....!!xx

I didn’t have ivf so not sure how relevant my comment will be ( I had surgeries to treat endometriosis)

I had no symptoms with either of my BFPs ( Ive had 2 with my hubby one was a miscarriage but I’m now 23 weeks pregnant & I also have a son from a previous relationship) I didn’t feel any different with any of my BFPs the only proper sign I had was a missed period ( my periods are very regular)

The problem & cruel twist is the symptoms of early pregnancy are the same as PMS 🤦🏽‍♀️

With this pregnancy I had cramping 3 days before my period was due which turned out to be implantation cramps! They felt like my period was coming! Cramps aren’t always bad.

There is no way of knowing till OTD.

Wishing you the best & hope it’s a BFP. 🤞🏻❤️✨ xoxo

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